I have a bad habit

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Lurking, Jul 3, 2019.

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What should I do in these situations?

  1. Come clean

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  2. Keep up the charade

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  3. Leave the online community I created the persona in

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  4. GET OUTTA NUF YOU DIRTY LIAR

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  1. Meloncauli

    Meloncauli 『Melon Cauli』

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    Oh, basic rundown sounds exciting. Wanna?
     
  2. Lurking

    Lurking GLArE *stares in a non-specified direction*

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    Wanna listen when someone says no bl?

    Surpise, im a lady.
     
  3. Meloncauli

    Meloncauli 『Melon Cauli』

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    Sure thing.

    Also, I know you're a lady. The avatar kind of gives it away...
     
  4. santrope

    santrope New Member

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    hmm interesting
     
  5. Fulminata

    Fulminata Typo Extraordinaire

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    Eh, I don't see the problem? A long as it's not a web that requires you to enter your data correctly and could sue you for fakes, no problemo. It's The Internet after all, the place where everyone can be anyone and anything without any real obligations to answer anybody truthfully (except in some special cases)

    but the running away when someone got attached part, if it a recurring probs and you're feeling troubled by it, i suggest that you talk to a therapist. They're seriously helpful in cases like this.
     
  6. Loni4ever

    Loni4ever The Fluffy White Wolf

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    *holds up an obligatory "go explode, riajuu" sign* :blobphone::blobjoy:

    I wonder how much of this is your rl self and how much isn't... or am I mistakenly doubting the real thing here xD I just don't remember seeing you use bold text before in this thread, and kinda wondering if some other persona part came out along with the writing habit of bold words, triggered by the topic violence xD
     
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  7. Lurking

    Lurking GLArE *stares in a non-specified direction*

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    Hahaha. I am a violent person, but I repress my violence since I am now civilised.

    I have.. strong anti-yandere feelings. I usually don't express since ppl are entitled to their own opinions even when I dont like those opinions.

    Hmm. Nah, I got an old persona that.. never used formatting ever, and one that formatted everything excessively. I.. avoid going to either extreme nowadays. Now I just, mainly use bold for what it is meant for, emphasis.

    I got a recent broken friendship, so I think that was my rl self.:blobpensive: Assholes can be fun people to hang out with, but sometimes they get to be too much and you should no longer hang out.

    Its normal to doubt after someone says sumthin like this. I don't blame you.

    My belief I should live with the consequences of my actions is why I haven't tried to figure out how ta delete threads yet. Which means, everyone who finds this will doubt me evermore after reading this?:blobsleepless: Hmmm. Oh well.
     
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  8. Femme Fatale

    Femme Fatale | Lady Schrodinger | Sublime Goddess Of Chance |

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    Us yandere can't be so bad cuz one actually accepts your change of attitude and even wants to encourage you.... *nudges you* As you get older, you learn that tags are all that they are....words that can be bent and adjusted, not what they necessarily mean on the surface.
     
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  9. Femme Fatale

    Femme Fatale | Lady Schrodinger | Sublime Goddess Of Chance |

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    *explodes in your direction then resumes her internet persona.*

    :cookie:
     
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  10. Lurking

    Lurking GLArE *stares in a non-specified direction*

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    Jahaha.
    I would not be in a romantic or intimate relationship with a yandere, but I wouldn't shun one.

    Yandere means psychopathic sadistic serial murderer, right? ....I don't think yer one?
     
  11. Femme Fatale

    Femme Fatale | Lady Schrodinger | Sublime Goddess Of Chance |

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    Yandere Meaning.
    That's not what it means, that is just an extreme. Could I do stuff like that? I think I could if I wasn't a person that thought life was sacred from from conception.... If I had a reason to defend myself I wouldn't hold back any punches, but I wouldn't just go around killing people cause I don't like Mondays, for example.
     
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  12. Lurking

    Lurking GLArE *stares in a non-specified direction*

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    Hmm. I thought a yandere was a psychopathic sadistic serial murderer whos kill targets were the love interest they were currently pursueing.
     
  13. Femme Fatale

    Femme Fatale | Lady Schrodinger | Sublime Goddess Of Chance |

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    I added a link with a definition to my previous post. Read a bit.
     
  14. XXOOMEPLS

    XXOOMEPLS [Friend A][Passer by][Random Person]

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    Escapism? Creating multiple persona is quite a short-lived happiness and also taxing you'll definitely get tired of it sooner or later since that persona wasn't the real you. If you continue doing that you'll probably lose your personality and the real you would also become fake.

    ¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯
     
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  15. Lurking

    Lurking GLArE *stares in a non-specified direction*

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    Ah. Then what exactly is this then? It doesn't match the yandere def you linked to lol.
    Is that just a kind of serial killer and what I loathe is actually a sexual predator type serial killer? Why did I think that was a yandere?

    Hmmm....
     
  16. Lurking

    Lurking GLArE *stares in a non-specified direction*

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    Nothing is real.

    ....hm. Valid concern I guess... I am so glad I aborted the persona I almost made at the lake today...
     
  17. Femme Fatale

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    It's more about apparent randomness of actions and living with your heart as opposed to your mind. We are the Chaos alignment. \o/ I've only reached this conclusion after reading lots about it.... this is my informed opinion. :p A yandere CAN be a psychotic serial killer...but that's an evil alignment type in my mind.
     
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  18. Lurking

    Lurking GLArE *stares in a non-specified direction*

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    Yandere is violent passionate randomness?

    Sorry not sorry, violence is inextricably linked to yandere in my head. I could remove the murder tag tho, with your info.
     
  19. Femme Fatale

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    Don't think of it as murder, it's more like apparent random actions. I say apparent random because the person will have a reason for doing something, it's just not something others can understand because the yandere person has a very rich inner mind. There isn't necessarily any malice in it. A person worthy of a yandere is one that will ask the reasons and get to know them. XD
     
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    Lurking GLArE *stares in a non-specified direction*

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    ...I reject your definition bcuz that would label me as a yandere.