I need that dating advice.

Supposably forums give good dating advice. So welcome to the past week of my god awful award life. Let us start the story.

So there this dance coming up in like January,Febuary.People are asking people to the dance and what not.So we were talking about who we like at lunch and my fiend and I out of all the girls like the same one.("Let the Hunger Games begin"says Friend2)We'll call dat friend Jim and the girl,GIRL1.I liked GIRL1 before Jim ever did although he didn't know.I guess Jim was "forced" to like GIRL1 cauz my friends would constantly I mean consantly joke around and say he liked GIRL1.IDK but what I do know is my friends r pricks(not sure if i can say this or not).Anyways I dunno wtf to do now and nor am I plannin to date GIRL1 cauz we will prob won't since its an important and busy year.Yeh.Thats my week.

 

Fight for it? Find what the girl feels? Hold on, you don't feel anything for the girl, no?

 

Just go for it, you have nothing to lose by doing it.

 

Go for it dude, be gentle with her,hang with her friends to make a good impression and know her better,ask her to hang out, ten ask out her in a date if u feel confident enough but don't deep too much the friendship because u will be friendzoned

 

I think I should make it clear.Even if I do ask her out she would say shes busy cauz this year is very important to me/her/whole grade.Graduation m8.So its gonna be a no.I wanna ask her to the dance not dating :/

 

Go ahead and ask her for the dance. If Jim was forced to like the girl, then it won't matter if you ask her instead. Tell your friend before you ask her to the dance though. Better for him to be prepared and also for him to here it from your own mouth instead of him coming to know about it cos someone told him later.

If he's a really close friend, then its your choice, whether you want to ask the girl or not. If you aren't planning to pursue her after graduation and he is a close friend you plan to keep in touch with later, it would be better not to ask her in my opinion. If not...then go ahead and ask her. Who cares about how someone else feels if you never going to meet him again.

You could ask her in private, so that if she does refuse you, she may feel too embarrassed to tell anyone else. That way, even if you lose the hoe, you'll somehow be able to keep the bro

 

Do homewhorks toghether. Find out if she had a boyfriend. Just ask her for a dance or reserve a dance at the graduation party.

 

You say you dont plan on dating girl1... then why bother? Xd... just make sure jim likes or not the girl and if he is serious... it also depends who is your friend here and make sure they dont mess up...

 

Hm if you like her then give it a go its fair game if your friend wants to he can try also in the end she might pick 1 of you or might not, never hurts to try. Also about the other part bro it dont matter if this month or next month is busy if a guy likes a girl he will make time for her likewise with the girl. if she likes a guy no matter how busy they will be, time will be made even if a bit because noone can say there busy 24/7 theres always 1 moment where your free and the i gotta study is just an excuse because noone actualy spends a whole day studying they stop to eat, take a break, shower and so on and during that time u can hang out. dont hurt to spend few hours with a person but what do i know i never study but am natural good grades A-B here xD and thats with computer specialist xD but yea dont hurt to try. give it a shot. If she accepts your invite or your friends is left all up to luck and that way you and your friend have no reason to fight because it was she who chose the other just gotta accept it like a man. With that i wish you luck!

 

My hidden worries is that I'll lose both my friend and the girl :/

 

If you want to go with her just ask her. Walk up to her and ask her. If other people are already sorting it out, there's nothing bad with the timing. If you think it's awkward, remember that it's not the process of asking that's awkward, it's how you handle the answer. If she says yes, no problems. If she says no and you say ok no problem see you later, no problems. If she says no and you don't know how to react or ask her why not or something dumb, then it's awkward. If you don't want to stir it up with your friend, don't ask her. But if you don't ask her and he does, you will regret it.

Alot of these 'dances' you are supposed to go with a partner. Why wouldn't you ask who you like?

 

http://forum.novelupdates.com/threads/the-love-doctor-is-in-the-house.510/

 

Okay so Operation D. Yes this is what im calling it. D = Dance btw you dirty minded people. Is Friday the perfect day?

 

Play some dating sims

 

how about you cripple jim's cultivation?, he's a lil bitch anyway, that can't stand peer preasure

 

your choice but for me earliest is best you gotta remember theres other people who may ask her first not only you and your friend. With that i mean id ask as soon as i can lol just me anyway

 

My only advice is instead of going straight of "hey be my girlfriend" kind of attitude, go for with "Would you like to go to the dance with me girl1" then make the plans on the day of the dance to be a quasi-date~ and then work from there -shrug- Also if your friend was "Forced" to like her, straight up ask him what he exactly likes about her and if hes serious, and then tell him that you are looking at her with serious intention. Usually a good friend would step down if they don't really like them~ @Dr.Maniac (Also learn her interests and stuff before you actually try to talk about the out of social "norms" hobbies.. ~ That's for later on in the relationship~)

 

Thx for the advice.We shall see what happens.Btw there will be no girlfriend end probably.

 

Don't quit before its over. If you keep pushing for a girlfriend end it won't happen, take it slow, and if it is a important time right now, just slowly focus on it~ show that you know it's a important time and you understand and just hang out / study or w/e you are doing at the moment with her so make your presence more known. no need to make it a heavy romance at the start @Dr.Maniac

 

If Jim stared to get interested in her because of your pricks friends, then going after her without notice would be seen as you pulling a dirty move on Jim. That is if everybody in your group knows that Jim may go after her, I mean if it shows in his behaviour