If you can take back one thing in life, what, why and how?

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  1. Pyoo

    Pyoo ☀ Summer Melody ☀

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    If you can take back on thing or event (or maybe person or relationship) in life, what would it be, why that specific thing or event and how do you think your life would have been like?

    Go crazy!
     
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    0000000 I B SMILING!

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    As Shrek 4 with Rumpelstiltskin states, the day of my birth...
     
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    Evil_Ginger 『Lawful Neutral』『Cheese Master』『安德鲁』

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    I should have never gone to college in Arizona it was a waste of time and money in the long run even though I probably learned quite the life lessons from there.

    I would have gotten my BA much faster and be at a better paying job and hopefully living a slightly less stressful life.

    But who knows. I might not have gotten a date like I just did today :blobokhand:
     
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    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    Joining NUF.:blob_coughblood::blobsalt:
     
  5. Pyoo

    Pyoo ☀ Summer Melody ☀

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    *whistles*
    so all that post is just to brag is it
    raijuu
     
  6. Pyoo

    Pyoo ☀ Summer Melody ☀

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    why :blobjoy:
     
  7. Miserys_End

    Miserys_End 「Lv1 Pretend Person」I'm the preson i pretend to be

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    Falling in love for the first time.
    Because it lead to me marrying her cousin
    More reasons then I care to list.
     
  8. Vilidious

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    Maybe all access to computers.

    I would've had to stave off boredom in some other way, maybe even serious physical training.

    Most likely everything from my profession to current indoors life would be different, but considering my personality, I'd likely still be a forever alone.

    Just a thin and in a way healthy one.
     
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    Rather than take back, I will stop it. I will stop my self from been alone at the childhood time. Because I been alone I been attracted to anime and manga.

    Because of this I been more focus to this entertainment than study or make friend with more good person. I not a honor student but at least I more of good student with good grade.

    But because of me been alone, that my grade been normal to much, not good not bad. Not study much, not play with other much also.

    And the most regret for me is that I been to focus on this anime and manga, my first love is gone with other..... and I swim to deep of this entertainment because of sad, that I found Hentai that had bad tag. The next I know, I can't run away from this.

    We only know regret after we look at the past. That me.
     
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    ongoingwhy Meat Pie Lover

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    Eh, it's better to look ahead and think about what you can change now. :cookie:
     
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    Well, I was in relatively good shape and better and better at being social when I lost my first love interest, second love interest and third love interest; fourth and fifth love interest did not work either... even though especially in later cases I did my best and didn't go full Hinata anymore.

    Thus, not being lonely or alone does not really solve those issues and, in my personal experience, you can feel lonely even when you're not really alone... like I did most of my childhood and youth.

    Anyway, I learned to accept that as part of who I am, so I'm not really sad... or happy... just kinda ok.

    Is it gonna be ok in the future for you (and me)?

    I have no clue, but this is the only way I currently know to live... just gotta do what I can to get what I want... if I ever really even wanted to change.

    Meh, could be worse. :blobwoah:
     
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  13. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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    This for a story?
     
  14. Pyoo

    Pyoo ☀ Summer Melody ☀

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    nope
    just a random thought

    but it kinda does sound like a good prompt
    the responses here are kinda amazing tho
     
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    Pyoo ☀ Summer Melody ☀

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    Its not too late (ง •̀_•́)ง faito!

    I do agree
    I had regrets about my current workplace and kept complaining to my family
    until my mom cant stand it anymore and told me to stop thinking of the past and just do it now

    my condolences
     
  16. Bakaturq

    Bakaturq Tell me, what do you see?

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    So you fell in love with someone, but married her cousin? What were you doing? Drunk impregnation?
     
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    Maybe my time in public school? I probably still be an odd kid without an idea on what to be in the future, but I kinda wish I had joined in a club back then and wasn't building a wall around people back then.

    P. S. I'm mostly the kind of person who will not regret on things for too long, since it's already in the past
     
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  18. iampsyx

    iampsyx Have some rest, and let's do better tomorrow

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    :hmm: Hmmm....going to the lavatory in the middle of that one Math class in elementary and missing the lesson about long division. I've always felt like I've been playing catch up in Mathematics because of that.

    ...Or am I just pointing fingers? I did slack off too much back in school...:blobsweat:
     
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    Myriadfold 『Silkmaid』『Ishhara's Devotee』『Daoist』『WW Vet.』

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    I suppose I would have said a few choice words to my parents back in primary school, they would divorce either way so what I wanted to tell them back them would either have ensured it happened or delayed it for a short while. my life would have completely changed paths and I may not be in such discomfort every day...
     
  20. TiggerBane

    TiggerBane Always asleep yep yep yep| Canidae lover

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    You can take back one thing in life? It doesn't have to be my life right? Of course it doesn't since OP never specified. THEN CLEARLY THERE IS ONLY ONE POSSIBLE ANSWER! ROME SHALL NEVER FALL! FOR THE GLORY OF CAESAR!
     
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