If your best friend (human best friend) told you they loved you what would you do?

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  1. Lissi

    Lissi 『Queen of Lissidom』『Holy Chibi』『Western Birdy』『⚓』

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    Firm reject! I'm not into girls romantically :blobsweat_2:
     
  2. Shizukani

    Shizukani Sparrow ⸜₍๑•⌔•๑ ₎⸝ ⚓『Southern Bird』∠( ᐛ 」∠)_

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    Unfortunately, I don't have a best friend. :blobcry:
    I guess no one will ever love me :blobsob:

    *sings the lucky duet all by myself while sobbing*
     
  3. Bobasis

    Bobasis Boobasstits

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    Reject them . i like girls but I wouldn’t bang my best friend . Also I don’t think my best friend @Manhuas2Life even likes girls
     
  4. Manhuas2Life

    Manhuas2Life [~ara ara~][is a simp] [part time Fujoshi]

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    I’d also reject them. Also in my opinion banging my BFF is just something I wouldn’t do. She’s more like my family. Right bob
     
  5. Bobasis

    Bobasis Boobasstits

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    Yes I would never bang you
     
  6. Manhuas2Life

    Manhuas2Life [~ara ara~][is a simp] [part time Fujoshi]

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    We both agree on this. (Do tell me if u ver get a partner. I wanan be like an Asian mother in law.)

    Oh don’t be sad. Maybe u gotta wait? Idk how long but there might be someone out there in the 7billion people
     
  7. Beren

    Beren Holy Saint

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    I dated my best friend so we've been there and done that lol
    I've always liked her so it seemed natural to try a relationship. It didn't work out for many reasons and we were a bit less close for a while afterwards ... in an on/off kind of way. Idk, I still think of her as my best friend so I guess we'll figure it out?
    It just makes dating other people a little awkward sometimes because my first ex is my best friend.
     
  8. Lonelycity

    Lonelycity Twice Bitten Thrice Shy

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    My best friend recently got married. Like 5 days back. So y3ah.
     
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  9. Reaper.ChaosKamifumetsu

    Reaper.ChaosKamifumetsu ‖True Chaos‖Twisted Prodigy‖True Energy‖Gamer God‖

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    I understand you.*sniff*
    *determined face*
    Lets kill al those guys!!!!!!:blobhero:
     
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  10. Shiroe Ackerman

    Shiroe Ackerman |Bored Aunt w/ Glasses|•|killing boredom|

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    This is surprisingly a hard question. The longer I think about it, the harder it gets. :cautious:
     
  11. Ai chan

    Ai chan Queen of Yuri, Devourer of Traps, Thrusted Witch

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    Gee, Ai-chan's best friend already did that. We had hot lesbian sex the entire night. She's now Ai-chan's sister-wife.

    But if you ask Ai-chan this question when Ai-chan was still at the all-girls school, Ai-chan would probably run away from her. Yeah, Ai-chan wasn't very open-minded back then. Ai-chan even had a crush on a senior, but never did anything about it because Ai-chan was raised to think that lesbianity is an offense towards God. Years later, she came to the school reunion with her girlfriend. Turns out she's been lesbian even since school and had several girlfriends back then. Made Ai-chan regret not sending her a love letter back in school.
     
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  12. ludagad

    ludagad Addicted to escapist novels

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    Impossible. Regardless of gender. I'd help to get them out of their infatuation though. As long as sex and kissing aren't involved, I can do everything else with them. Once they see my living habits, short temper, and need for alone time, they'll realize there are much better people out there and we can keep our friendship without any awkwardness.
     
  13. manhquynh1678

    manhquynh1678 New Member

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    If your best friend (human best friend) told you they loved you what would you do? For me maybe it was a surprise and I never thought of it. Will a best friend become a lover? Looks like these are two completely different categories,............... :(:(:(:(:(:(:(
     
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    Have friends. Not the best friend. Maybe the closest friend then? No, I don't swing that way.
    As for friends, unless slowly like them already, feels awkward after that to hang out if don't like them that way. Probably relationship will drift.
     
  15. UsefulAlive24

    UsefulAlive24 『••✎ I burn for you✎••』

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    .....what if ur the one who confessed? :derpyblob:
    Well I mean, I'm bi, and uh, it is a well known fact that a high percentage of the LGBTQ community first discovered there sexuality because of their best friends::blobcatsmile::

    First off, if they really did confessed that they love me, I would say I love you too, it's just like the usual type because we always say I love you to each other, but then if they turned serious and told me that 'I love you in a romantic way' my natural reaction would be, "oh wait really?" then after my brain managed to process that, I would kiss her right there and then :^D
     
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  16. Saorihirai

    Saorihirai Well-Known Member

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    I would say I love them as well, just as a comrade loves his comrade, a mother loves her children, and a sister loves her sister.

    Many types of love right? I’m quite close with all my friends, and I certainly do love them.
     
  17. Lois.

    Lois. ❲.❳ ❲woh.❳

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    Honestly speaking I'd probably just say "yea." Because I'd had thought they meant it in an unromantic way in reflex. If I knew that they meant it in a romantic way I'd just keep silent because we both know I'm not open for a relationship at the moment.
     
  18. Lil Iyana

    Lil Iyana {Cutie} {Handsome Chicken’s Princess mama} {⚓️}

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    Reject~! :sushi_singing:
     
  19. orematcha

    orematcha crossing the realm of the dead

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    Eeh, I would be surprisingly happy because I love my best friend as well! :blobrofl:
     
  20. imK

    imK Artful Dodger

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    I rejected them firmly but kindly. I told them I didn't think about them that way and I didn't want to. They were sad, but gracious about it. The friendship wasn't the same after that and we basically drifted apart. I don't regret it though. They're a good person and they're living a good life.