Discussion Is meeting new people

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  1. Ash_Kira

    Ash_Kira 『The Shards of the Ashes』『Absent Roses』《Mensao》

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    Is meeting new people make your heartbeat pump like crazy that you feel anxious, nausea and dizzy? *heartbeat fast* ::blobcatsad::
     
  2. DarkChocolateMilkshake

    DarkChocolateMilkshake | She brings me back to life | ⚤

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    *thinks*
    *hugs kira*
    For me, no. I get shy but not to the point where I can't interact with strangers.

    Fudge! My 69 messages! *sulks*
     
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  3. Ash_Kira

    Ash_Kira 『The Shards of the Ashes』『Absent Roses』《Mensao》

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    *hugs back*
    *sigh*
    I..... *save me*
    When I interact with you I feel like my stomach is turning upside down inside ugh *feeling dizzy*
     
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  4. FlufflyLittleRabbit

    FlufflyLittleRabbit Fluff...Fluffy....FLUFFYYYYY!

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    For me, yes or maybe I'm just too shy to face them. :sweating_profusely: I feel like I want to dig holes to hide from them.
     
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    Lovelybutter Well-Known Member

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    No…
     
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  6. Ash_Kira

    Ash_Kira 『The Shards of the Ashes』『Absent Roses』《Mensao》

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    Until now meeting with people
    Feels like I'm in a rollercoaster :sweating_profusely::blobdizzy:
     
  7. Arcadia Blade

    Arcadia Blade ༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ You can do it!!

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    No. Its just my usual reaction whenever I meet with people. I am just a social recluse to the point where I'm just afraid of talking to people.
     
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    Oof_Ash.Here Well-Known Member

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    Ah… I don’t know how to reply to that as I used to feel like that a few years back and now it’s just normal.

    *got cyberbullied for the first time in my life then interacted with many strange people which somehow made me gained confidence???* (odd)

    *sweats in nervousness* Though I do still get shy and embarrassed if I talk before I think… ::bloblove:: Love and Care for you ^^
     
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    otaku31 Well-Known Member

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    What's with these reactions?! Y'all are behaving as if all strangers are potential psychopaths! :blobwoah:
     
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    Harry Now you see me

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    Yes they are, human have unlimited potential to become anything including psychopath or peerless NEET or Telletubies
     
  11. Ash_Kira

    Ash_Kira 『The Shards of the Ashes』『Absent Roses』《Mensao》

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    It just that strangers are human
    It's dangerous
    There like predators
    :blobastonished:
     
  12. Orris

    Orris Song of Impulse

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    i mean...
    they can be :blobpeek::blobspearpeek::blobspearpeek::blobspearpeek::blobrofl:

    Not to worry! Take a single dose of AnxietyBeGone by NUF Pharmacy Co. :aww::aww::aww:
    only for the low low price of... *thinks* 2,000 nuffies! ::blobcatsmile::
    Results guaranteed! Probably!
     
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  13. DarkChocolateMilkshake

    DarkChocolateMilkshake | She brings me back to life | ⚤

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    Are you perhaps disgusted *puppy eyes* *pouts*
     
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    Ash_Kira 『The Shards of the Ashes』『Absent Roses』《Mensao》

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    No! I'm not disgusted with you
    It's just reaction from my brain and body
    From meeting a new people like you :blobfrowning:
    Sorry if I offend you :blobconfounded:
     
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    DarkChocolateMilkshake | She brings me back to life | ⚤

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    *hugs kira* its alright. I was just kidding when I said that. *gives you ice cream*
     
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    Ash_Kira 『The Shards of the Ashes』『Absent Roses』《Mensao》

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    *hugs back* Thanks *takes the ice cream*
    Hmm.. Yummy *lick the ice cream*
    *looks at you* You're such a wonderful person
    *smile gently* Here! For you *giving you rose⚘*
     
  17. Kelsealoufromkalamazoo

    Kelsealoufromkalamazoo [The Luckiest Sunfish]

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    Yeah, it was very bad when I was 13/14. But when I got my first job as a waitress, I learned to fake it until you make it. I don’t feel as bad now, but presentations still make me feel like I ran a marathon
     
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    Mr. Tired Headpat Addict

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    Yes :blobconfounded: It's actually gotten worse over the years, and my anxiety is the worst it's ever been. My social anxiety itself is ridiculously high. Most of the time, I can't even look people in the eye (though maybe that's just a height issue :blobsweat_2:), it just seems intimidating and too personal? Intimate? Not sure. I can barely even look at my family members for longer than 20 seconds.

    Meeting new people feels like a job; there's a lot of pressure and expectations to be met. Is what I feel for some reason. And socializing is just tough in general. For many reasons, I'm not the best at conversating with others. I also think I'm more of a listener anyway.

    I just get very anxious, my heart starts racing, I feel like my blood is cold and I get all nervous. :bloborz: And then people don't want to talk to me anyway cause it just feels forced and awkward. :sushi_dead: I wish I wasn't so anxious and nervous about everything.
     
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    LeniSnow A snow who feels cold

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    I used to be but now I don't care. I stopped caring about everything, that means I don't think about anything, I don't overthink anymore, and stopped trying to please people and just act as I see fit but still with respect and within border. I find people being more attach to someone like that.
     
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