Discussion Lonely enough to become a lesbian/bi ?

I wondered if there are female NUFFians or female otakus that would not care to get a girlfriend because of not having any lover for a long time or because they became interested after reading yuri/GL series.
I kinda want to see a yes.

 

I don't know about women becoming lesbians but I can sure as hell tell u being Gay ( guy ) isn't a choice it's something u r born with

 

So your sexual orientation is genetic? Is that what you're saying?

 

I suggested you asked this instead: Are you horny enough to have it out at everyone regardless of genders?

 

Lonely women with lots of cats

 

I have found that sexuality is as much a part of nurture as nature in my experience.

 

Hmm I'm leaving my mark here and hoping to see gl here soon

 

More like for guys , I guess because I know enough guys who would love to become Gay but can't , hence not a choice maybe nurturing has something to do with it , I don't I ain't an expert whatever works for you is fine with me

 

It doesn't work that way.

 

Gay is an extremely rare deviations. Perhaps enough to say it's aberration born of small percentage out of human population that are subject into complex social structure and increasingly varying chemicals effecting their physiology.

 

I know that lonely people would think of passing some quality time with bros aka bromance, I don't know what the female version is called though, sismance ? that doesn't sound right for some reason
But to change gender entirely because of being lonely seems strange to me, unless the person in question is a bi and trying to hide it most of the time by saying they are straight but when they are lonely their urges acted up and they jumped at the opportunity not caring about the target's gender nor thinking about their lie of being straight.

 

Like what the above people said, it doesn't really work that way and contrary to what you want to see, I hope no one says yes. Because, if you don't really like girls and you just got together with another girl due to curiousity or loneliness and whatnot is completely rude to the other person. If this is the case, infidelity is highly likely.

 

Some would say 'a mouth is a mouth'.

 

For guys it's genetic but not for girls? What a load of nonsense you're spouting. Saying it's genetic is already a big question mark, let alone that that specifically differs between genders. A lot of factors play a role and that's about all there is to be said.

As for the subject of the thread, it's probably possible. Maybe. Who knows.

 

well, obviously they can try it... maybe because of interest or whatever they can have the title of girlfriend?

but if you want actual love between the couple it does not work that way... it's more like friends with benefits really...

you can't just randomly fall in love with someone, you can take them as a gf.............. but it will be based on lust and not love.


of course as a guy i might be completely wrong, but personally im 19 yrs old and have never had a girlfriend.... but it's not like i'll see a pretty guy and then suddenly want that guy in my ass.

 

I don't think it's rude if the girls she got together with had the same reasons as hers. As long as she stated before going out that she wanted to go out with her out of curiousity and loneliness and the other party was okay with it, then why not

I'm too innocent to understand your profound words, could you please enlightent me!

 

I say yes, you can become lonely enough to "get bi". If you already fulfill certain prequisites, the loneliness can give you the final push to try it out.

 

Mate I don't believe in such things, there is no such thing called born gay, I mean look at the nature and how creatures are born into males and females and only through the joining of two opposite genders would a new life be created, it is in the genetics of most living beings (unless you are like bacteria thus you divide and don't need a partner to produce offshoots) as such there is no such thing as being born gay, but becoming gay because of some certain circumstances and doctrine then yes, that would make people unconsciously believe that they are born gay, it is not a deviation, but more like a strong case of fetish that some people get.

 

This topic reminds me of an old short comedy/parody/humor whatever video clip about some dude being too lazy so he became gay because it's too much effort to hook up with girls and he never gets laid...

p.s. there's subtitles in english, they seemed a bit so-so tbh but what can you do...