Discussion Looking for an 3rd person honest opinion

You don't look scary, you look just like the average human being

 

Thanks everyone. I’m embarrassed by all your kind remarks. I guess I’ve been putting myself down for so long. I can’t see the reality. Thank you for opening up my eyes. I do appreciate all the advice and comments. I will try to be more positive and try to smile more. I’ll work on the confidence and my wardrobe. As to cutting my hair. Maybe in a few months. For now with winter. It helps against the cold. But I’ll definitely consider it in Spring or Summer. Thanks again everyone. You guys are the best

 

Not bad. Not scary at all. And your body looks great!

1st pic looks a bit like someone i know

 

My brother, as a bi guy, I have to say that your a little above average. Youre like a 6.9 out of 10.

Your most definitely more attractive then the average person but your not like "Woah that guy right theres an actor".

Your youtuber attractive.

 

I say hold onto it, maybe a trim. As long as you care for it with suitable shampoo and conditioner. Longer hair is so rare on a guy, it's a rare and attractive feature T_T.

 

This I agree after seeing the first photo...

I guess it also depends on the type of shirt, not just the color... You have to find the proper shade of pink...
Plain colors look good on large build... Try experimenting on v-cut and c-cut shirt... It's to show off the neck and collar area !
You can also try patterned one, like stripes or checkered...

You could try silver or gold watch, depends on your skin tone... But I'd still go for black leather for the watch, there's also the digital sports one if you're active... Actually, a watch is a good enough accessory...

You can try practicing confidence !
Well, it's the eyes for me
I want to see a happy, radiating smile, the eyes sparkling ! Not just facial muscles pulled at the corner
The teeth ? Ohh they're fine~
I prefer the long hair one with the beard... Looks warmer...

Practicing facial expressions in front of a mirror can (not guaranteed) add a lil boost of confidence...
Most probably cause once you meet people, there's this assurance that that's the look you're giving them and not some weird expression~

 

I really appreciate all the advice.
My watch looks like this.


As to a low cut shirt. I’ll see what I can find.
As to confidence. That will take a bit.
Thanks again for all the wonderful recommendations and suggestions

 

Ohhh... The watch is pretty...
I'll personally find it difficult to match clothes if I had that tho...
And yupp building confidence takes time !!
Bring out your inner nuffian to the 3D world !

 

I’ll try my best

 

I don't think you get the ratings, 5 isn't average. I'd describe 5 as ugly but not disgusting, as in the person is not pretty in any way but at least you don't wanna look away. The real average I'd say is 6.5. It depends on nations and regions though.
Dude, you're an 8.

 

Wow. Thanks

 

10 Explode
9 Drop dead
8 Handsome

7 Decent
6 Ok
5 Ugly
4 Fucking ugly
3 Bug monster(from hentai)
2 Eldritch abomination
1 Shit demon(from Dogma)

 

eh~ good looking enuf~ well this cat agree first pic look forced enuf lol the second you look like frown? mincing try to see something~

well you need to relax your mind perhaps? your face is the type quite popular on mature women, quite manly I say~
here the tip for smile~ go listen to comedy that make you laugh or smile at least once a week~ the one which truly make you smile or laugh~ it help your face muscle, relax your mind, learn some jokes three cats on one catnip~ next surround yourself with people who you find fun to hang around be it online or real live~ it help to build confidence~

oh here another that may sound silly but help~
everyday before begin your day, say it to yourself in front of mirror " you are handsome"

 

Awww. Thanks. Your wonderful. I appreciate the advice

 

no no haircut. grow hair longer. long hair is prettier and cuter. short hair is more severe.

no dont go back. much nicer looking with longer hair. the length is awkward right now but your hair looks nice and should become longer. i think that would suit you.

no dont go back. much nicer looking with longer hair. the leng

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im faceblind but i agree. nice to look at.

no dont go back. much nicer looking with longer hair. the length is a bit awkward right now but it just needs to grow longer. Also your hair grows long really fast which is good and a sign of healthy hair. I recommend you try at least until your shoulder blades. I specifically seek out long hair so I'm very biased but it's a nice and rare trait in common masc culture and it actually Suits You. Long hair draws the eyes

i also dont get the ratings. More details please please explain it. What does explode mean

 

For now I’m leaning towards long too. I needed a change and this seems the less dramatic. Thanks for always looking out for me

 

You're pretty good! imo from ur body size description (height & weight) i would consider u as pretty big & tall overall. I'd say 8/10

 

It has. I feel more confident, but I also feel more sensible of reality. I am also humbled by all the kind remarks. Everyone here is amazing

 

What is?