Discussion Male lingerie? (A question for the women)

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Men in "female" erotic wear? (Women answer only, please)

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  1. Moonpearl

    Moonpearl Professional Yuri Girl ❀ [Yuri Garden Creator]

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    Let's all break the taboo about discussing female sexuality and go gung ho, because I have a burning question that doesn't seem to be getting answered any other way!

    Personally, I like men looking sexy in the same way women are supposed to look sexy. I know one or two other ladies who are with me on this, but society's general attitude seems to be that I should be attracted to this "alpha man" stereotype flexing his great masculine muscles and dominating me, or something.

    Now, I've always suspected that more women like "feminine" men than I've been told. Why? Well, think of yaoi. Allegedly the idea behind it's allure is that "one hot man is hot, but two hot men is hotter", which means that the uke should also be "hot", right? And men in yaoi may end up in all sorts of costumes, such as maid, or bunny...
    I've also come across plenty of art that's reminiscent of yaoi but only involves one man. This involves men who are tied up, or looking that uke-style submissive/embarrassed, or even wearing costumes... There's no other man to enjoy the sight in the picture, so it's for the viewer, right? Women are making it for women? (I know gay men might be as well, but since most fans/creators of this style are women...)

    Well, I asked Google for answers, focusing in on "sexy male wear", but all it gave me was what men apparently wanted ME to wear, and women with the apparent sexual appetite of a spoon giggling and saying, "nice shoes!"

    (TL;DR:) So since even Google shudders at the thought of answering me, I'll put it over to some real women (who like men): What's sexy, in a real, erotic, belonging-to-the-bedroom sort of way? Do you find men in bunny suits and maid outfits sexy? What about in lingerie?

    Some (tame) examples:
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    justmehere Well-Known Member

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    OMG FOR THE LOVE OF GOD NOOOOOOOOOO

    Those are the type of guys whos going to ignore you and spoon the other guy ...
     
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    unknown14 Well-Known Member

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    fq dis sheet im out
     
  4. Jigoku Shounen

    Jigoku Shounen An Envoy From Hell

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    .:blobpeek:
    ....Why the heck did I even feel curious enough to click on the "spoiler"?....:blobneutral:
    Sorry to disturb you ladies.....:sweating_profusely:
     
  5. Aisha Ann

    Aisha Ann I LOVE SELFISH VILLAINESS

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    Click spoiler
    Hahaha I can't stop laughing here.
     
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  6. Moonpearl

    Moonpearl Professional Yuri Girl ❀ [Yuri Garden Creator]

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    I mean, I've known straight men who are happy to dress like this? Not to mention there are bi guys.

    Not nice to you, then? What do you prefer instead?
     
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  7. Aisha Ann

    Aisha Ann I LOVE SELFISH VILLAINESS

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    I am curious, never seen men wear ladies clothes. First time see it making me laugh. So hilarious
     
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  8. elengee

    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    Borat in a banana hammock.
     
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  9. Moonpearl

    Moonpearl Professional Yuri Girl ❀ [Yuri Garden Creator]

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    Safe to say it's not your definition of sexy, then. What is? I'm just trying to get a feel for answers from real women, rather than Google's "nice suit" bullcrap...
     
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  10. Rivenn

    Rivenn 【I eat fruit】【commonhouseman】【RV_n/Rivelle】

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    the thing is, those costumes were made for women, and doesn't really accent the "male sexiness"

    although the gap raises the immoral feeling to it... it doesn't feel the same as when girls wear men clothes -.-

    now this is something~
     
  11. Moonpearl

    Moonpearl Professional Yuri Girl ❀ [Yuri Garden Creator]

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    Oh, really? I always think they show off the right parts. The back/arms/chest are nice, right?
     
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    Why on NU forum we have so many creeps?
     
  13. Moonpearl

    Moonpearl Professional Yuri Girl ❀ [Yuri Garden Creator]

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    Just asking a question isn't creepy...? It's clearly signposted. You don't have to come in if you don't want to.
     
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    I mean not really into alpha Male types
    Super muscly or super feminine.
    I like somewhere in between, actually I’m more of a face thing
    I’m not really attracted to the body,
    Maybe, it’s good if they’re tall and subtly fit, but mostly the face, yeah it’s the face, I like cute smiles, I always fall for the ones with cute smiles,
     
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    Raneday Not Rane

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    curiosity killed you?
     
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    SquirFail The One Who Forgets, Dreamer, Observer

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    curiosity blinded me
     
  17. Robbini

    Robbini Logical? Illogical? Random? Or Just Unique?

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    Wouldn't a bunnysuit be cosplay rather than lingerie though ? Lingerie strictly put is Underwear, and while I'm not really attracted to men, I can't really fathom they could make vary it for men other than size, shape (very few) or color of said underwear piece.
     
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  18. Moonpearl

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    I didn't want to make the title too lengthy, so I just put the general idea. But the idea isn't really to vary it at all. Men in garterbelts and stockings just as they are, basically?
     
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    …I would understand if you were trying to put a trap in a maid costume, since the point of traps is that they are feminine on all aspects other than having a p*nis and balls. But this…I can't fathom why someone would find a dude in drag attractive. If it's just crossdressing for a party then I could understand but lingerie…
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  20. zhainan2157

    zhainan2157 『Villager No.2157』『Kawaii Connoisseur』

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    Straight male here, but I just have to agree with you on how lots of females these days seem to like feminine men. My basis? Look at Kpop, even I have to admit that they’re attractive, even to a straight male like me, but almost all kpop male stars are feminine and skinny af. Really puts a lot of pressure on a guy like me who towers over people and is built like a tank.

    Edit: I thought you were talking about men in sexy men lingerie and not female sexy lingerie. I believe that girls like feminine men, but not to a crossdressing degree! I think they prefer a girlish looking man in a man’s outfit with that kind of contrast, not the other way around with a buff af dude in a bikini.
     
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