Need Advice, I fell in love with my best friend...

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  1. ORoger

    ORoger Well-Known Member

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    Ok so there is this girl, I have known her for a few years, at first we were just friendly, over time we become friends and now she is my closest friend (my 'bestfriend' if you wish) and I am pretty sure I am hers too.

    Problem:
    I recently realized that I am in love with her. But I know for certain that there will never be that kind of relationship between us, as she is a lesbian.

    So what do I do ? How can I 'forget' her, given that I keep meeting her basically every other day and we text and chat daily?

    This may not be the best place to ask, but I don't really have many friends and I can't risk asking one them for advice without risking that that she may gets winds of it.

    Ps.
    Sorry for my grammar not a native speaker.
     
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  2. elengee

    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    Get your wiener removed, voila. :blobsleepless:
     
  3. kuroAnsatsu

    kuroAnsatsu Realistically Stoic

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    It's indeed not the best place, peoples will mess around with you.
     
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    unkxz Lurker

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    dat moment when you get friendzoned even before you're in love with her. my condolences.
     
  5. DocB

    DocB "I see you, little mouse! Run along"

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    suggest a threesome
    you can't get anything if you don't ask
     
  6. Nyanko

    Nyanko Psychotic Cat Princess

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    You also need to start wearing dresses and makeup *nod nods* trap transformed, she'll totally go for you.

    You know, girls actually quite value the platonic friendship of guys. Honestly, its best not to ruin it at all, particularly if she's a lesbian, keep the friendship and go find someone else to devour. Both you and her will be better for it.

    Or become a girl. Ether or
     
  7. Aldnonymous

    Aldnonymous Male Member

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    I notice there's a fallacy here.

    MALE CAN NOT BECOME FRIEND WITH FEMALE WITHOUT DEVELOPING ROMANTIC FEELINGS.

    Just be honest, tell her you like her, if she return your feelings then it's good, if not then move on.
     
  8. Snowdropdreamer

    Snowdropdreamer ☆♕ Mama's Little Princess ♕☆

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    Just enjoy her company platonically. :blobwoah:
     
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  9. elengee

    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    Just wait till she's ready to have a baby with her partner and offer some 'material'. 'it's cheaper if we don't use a clinic!'.
     
  10. Slayerwolfx2

    Slayerwolfx2 [Immortal Forever]

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    Does she have a girlfriend?
    How comfortable will you guys be with the question?

    If the answer to the first is a No, and to the second is a at least won't die, give it a go, you have nothing to lose and at least no regrets~
     
  11. justmehere

    justmehere Well-Known Member

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    lol, shes not even playing on the same team....

    If I were you I would just forget about any feelings and move on to another girl. The only way you can get girls to like you is to make yourself the alpha on their eyes. Just move on and focus on getting more friends instead to keep your mind off of her.
     
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  12. Westeller

    Westeller Smokin' Sexy Style!! Staff Member

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    OP is an old hat and clearly knew that when he made the thread.

    Maybe he's using us as a rebound.
     
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  13. RizYun

    RizYun #Kaffee4Laifu

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    Just try to confess, even if it's failed in the end you are already tried. Just hope that your friendship still last long and won't broken.
     
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    foxyprince Well-Known Member

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    Use a forbidden technique make lesbian love you... take care of your looks like women does and hope for God to give you that miracle and have that androgynous looks... and she somehow notices you. If you feel like it just become much closer to her who knows at one point she likes you or live your life,expose yourself to events and such to meet new people expand your world... at one point you'll find a different girl
     
  15. kuroAnsatsu

    kuroAnsatsu Realistically Stoic

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    At least all we can do is entertain him
     
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    AIm21 Well-Known Member

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    Get a sex change maybe? Just kidding, but if she is lesbian then you should either go out and try meeting other girls or just play a bunch of Dark Souls game to feel frustrated enough to forget about her after you get slaughter over and over again.
     
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  17. Drakolous Maxima

    Drakolous Maxima 《一条龙》

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    You can: A, be a selfish bitch and confront her
    B, look at it from the other P.O.V and move on
     
  18. ShizukanaShadou

    ShizukanaShadou Well-Known Member

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    Take a potion that makes you female #genderbender ;)
     
  19. Zaart

    Zaart Deer Master Race

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    Try loving here in another way
    Like a sister fo exemple
     
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  20. ORoger

    ORoger Well-Known Member

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    Yea that's my problem, I don't want to ruin our friendship, i value that too but Its really difficult to 'move on' without actually putting distance between us.