Discussion No Friends

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Bad Storm, Nov 27, 2021.

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Longest time you didn't talk to a human being in a social way?

  1. less than a day

    9.4%
  2. a day

    9.4%
  3. less than a week

    13.2%
  4. two weeks or so

    9.4%
  5. A month or so

    5.7%
  6. More than a month

    17.0%
  7. More more more more

    13.2%
  8. I feel like I never really talked to anyone for a very long time despite how everything seems normal

    28.3%
  9. others (indicate in the comment)

    1.9%
  10. I dunno tbh

    15.1%
  11. *noms skullie*

    11.3%
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  1. Bad Storm

    Bad Storm no thought, head empty

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    So I was going through my normal routine of playing music while cycling. And then this song came up.



    Thoughts?

    I'm not very good at maintaining friendships. I only have a select few I consider very close to me. But I view myself as someone friendly, won't deliberately alienate someone who willing to talk and befriend me. And I dunno, completely having no friends just outside my comfort zone. I like having people to talk to, interact with, hang out and go on trips with. And the way the song say he's okay with no friends and how he prefers to be alone is a little uncomfortable to me. Felt like it was an excuse you give yourself for being not good at making friends. Then, completely giving up at even trying. I'm very introverted so i get the need for alone time but complete isolation is just too much.
     
  2. Silver Snake

    Silver Snake Magician of NUF|Show-off|Awkward|Genius

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  3. Bad Storm

    Bad Storm no thought, head empty

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    mhm, same.
     
  4. Gandire Alea

    Gandire Alea [Wicked Awesome Translator]

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  5. Bad Storm

    Bad Storm no thought, head empty

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    ... what kind of club lmao
     
  6. Cutter Masterson

    Cutter Masterson Well-Known Super-Soldier

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    I like it. Kind of sounds like the majority of MC I see in mangas, anime and novels actually
     
  7. Bad Storm

    Bad Storm no thought, head empty

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    I find that when someone gives up at something they get good at reasoning out why they made the choices they did.
     
  8. ConnectFire611

    ConnectFire611 [NUF Wizard] - (ᗒᗜᗕ) - (⌐▨-▨) - [Uncle of Three]

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    It’s a great song but I guess I could agree with you guys that I would go crazy if I was alone too long.
     
  9. Gandire Alea

    Gandire Alea [Wicked Awesome Translator]

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    The no friend club
     
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  10. Despapa69

    Despapa69 Revered 17 Syllable Sage

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    Me and my friends just communicate for homework and school. Not much else. So, less than a week.
     
  11. ConnectFire611

    ConnectFire611 [NUF Wizard] - (ᗒᗜᗕ) - (⌐▨-▨) - [Uncle of Three]

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    The kind of club where the only friends you have are online.
     
  12. Bad Storm

    Bad Storm no thought, head empty

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    it feels weird actually. Coz i know I'm pretty comfy at being alone. But when I'm with my friends it's just a whole different kind of fun. I don't want to lose any of the two.
    I'm your friend tho... am I not? :blob_teary:
    Hmm, I like school friends haha. Coz unlike other friends you experience so many things together and somehow that time together changes to a bond of sort that you can't get with others.
    Do they not feel like real friends if they are onlinw friends hahaha
     
  13. Gandire Alea

    Gandire Alea [Wicked Awesome Translator]

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    What connect fire said,
    But, sweet, I have friends~
     
  14. Bad Storm

    Bad Storm no thought, head empty

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    I don't want such a club haha
    but not like it's such a bad idea
     
  15. Gandire Alea

    Gandire Alea [Wicked Awesome Translator]

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    Fufufu~
     
  16. aegis062

    aegis062 Chaotic Demon Emperor

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    I wouldn't say I am social, but I am not anti social either. I talk to a few ppl every day.
     
  17. IceLight303

    IceLight303 Well-Known Member

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    I live with other people and speak to them daily.
     
  18. ConnectFire611

    ConnectFire611 [NUF Wizard] - (ᗒᗜᗕ) - (⌐▨-▨) - [Uncle of Three]

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    @Gandire Alea, you only aware of your friends now?

    And @Bad Storm, friends are just the people you have fun with it doesn’t matter if they’re online.
     
  19. Gandire Alea

    Gandire Alea [Wicked Awesome Translator]

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    Fumu, or am I??
     
  20. Bad Storm

    Bad Storm no thought, head empty

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    indeed. some people think it's not a legit friendship tho hahaha