Recommendations No sexism

Travelling to the future, Its not Easy to be a Man. The society is sexist but the MC is a female and the author isn't sexist; instead, MC (who has to masquarade as a man to avoid getting killed for reasons that are explained early in novel) and his friends prioritize strength and know better than to care about gender. The society isn't overly sexist at all, though, so its ignorable.

 

I heard though that she always become stupid around ML and loses most of her skills if u will(like she needs him to do it for her)

 

Are we talking about the same novel? Up until the very last released chapter, there is no confirmed ML, little love interests beside 1 guy, who likes the MC but has kept it a secret. MC is everyone's mom AND dad, super OP, does everything (through hard work)... its not a romance novel at all, and the MC doesn't cave for any ML (there isn't 1, but even if there was one)