If i can be the one who open the package, why bother use a second hand stuff? i'm joking, if you really love someone and you're about to marry the person.. isn't this not a problem anymore? Because if you guys communicate right, you should already know about their past relationships before you decided to marry.. and accept them, and not get bothered by them. Decide now, if you guys truly love each other and ready to stay faithful/loyal to each other only.. the pasts are in the past, marry them! or.. because this past sex partners thingy bothered you so much, just cut the relationship NOW! Well if you think this person is unworthy of your pure body! Decide now, to accept or to let go! don't forced yourself to get married and get crazy jealous/bothered/disgusted later and fight everyday.
Never did I expect there to be a homosexual in the forums, well, the relationship just depends on you now. But, what do you mean by 'I'm his last'?
With that amount? She could be a prostitute before.. selling her body for money.. well.. i know some girls who live their happy life now with their new family and their husbands know about their pasts.. true love does exist..
I’ve only had one girl sexually and she has had around three. Believe me one is to many, but I still love her and would never leave her for that reason. It still irking to know she has had more sexual partners.
5) her vag can fit both your fists! Anyway, there's always 'logical reasons' as to why things COULD be fine but it's the emotional aspect / difference in morals that will eventually clash. Like someone else said, if someone's been with let's say as many people as Barney Stinson, that's no longer healthy behaviour but either self-harm or a cry for attention, like a girl with daddy issues / attachment problems. Like i've known a girl that couldn't emotionally connect so had one night stands almost daily so she could at least feel some connection to people. Now, let's say that person is working on their problems and in therapy, sure things might be better than they used to be, but there'll always be various problems you'll have to work through. Not to mention that loving someone that damaged will hurt you as well. Just like it's normal to love a spouse that has cancer, but it's something you'd avoid falling in love with when they're in that situation, simply out of self-preservation of your feelings. And i guess if she's so open (lol pun) about her past, you'd have a relationship where you're communicating so maybe toys would be something you could discuss, but in most cases this is kind of a tough issue. And that's after girls with toys have become a 'hot topic' (although having a collection of 30 gigantic black dildos might be a bit different). Would you share your fleshlight with her or even dare mention it to anyone? All these complications and things that are hard to communicate in a relationship where one side is already potentially dysfunctional on some level of attachment. Some things just don't work, if you're insecure and your partner is considered to be extremely wanted by the opposite sex, you'll have issues with that, even if you know you can trust them. Even more so if in your past that trust had been violated. If she's that open with sexuality, what if she wants to do camshows online? What if she didn't care her friends and family knew? What about your family? Your future kids? It's not just going to be a 'number' but a representation of morals and ability of retaining healthy relationships that aren't solely based around sex. There's a difference between having 20 relationships that lasted a whole year, where they dated and didn't instantly jump in the sack, or her getting drunk and blowing 5 guys in one night etc. What if she admits to cheating on people before? What if she had unprotected sex (along with the fear of her cheating). Did she get paid for sex or use it to feed her drug addiction etc. Are there still people looking for her, like a pimp or something. What if you have a kid and you guys break up and she becomes a whore / pornstar (again?) , how would that affect your child, who'd get custody etc.
Well, when you date someone, you do so with the intention to marry, do you not? Thus, I may not have his treasured first but as long as he continues to love me, doesn't cheat on me, what I will have is his last time having sex. I'm not sure how to explain it.
Ah, so that why some men have being going around showing of their key, they must be thinking they got the master key. A better analogy would be tunnel and trains, the tunnel doesn't care how many trains pass through as long as they don't crash and burn.
"Imagine that you are age 21..." Don´t know your situation but probably you should take some years to choose a marriage partner.. If after 2-3 years you still keep feeling the same way then it could work, i mean you are 21 theres no rush.
It depends... And aids are a thing... has she ever had an abortion? is she emotionally stable (I mean f*** going out with 21 up to the point of doing it just to break up?) I say 3 and at most 5... well rather than how many sexual partners she'shad in her life, the ratio of how many she's had / how many years she has lived is probably more important... like... being 20 and having had round 15 partners isn't the same as being 27+ with the same amount
Inspired by @Wujigege's thread about single moms actually. I was curious whether guys have a bad impression of single moms more because of the (1) the fact there is a child, or (2) the implied promiscuity/poor-decision-making of the mom. I was curious about whether societal expectations about the promiscuity of men and women were different. I realized later that this poll wasn't well designed though. I think I would have been interested in knowing: Male thoughts on the promiscuity of women Female thoughts on the promiscuity of men Male thoughts on the promiscuity of other men Female thoughts on the promiscuity of other women Furthermore, there's the fact that the prompt specifies that it's your own significant other, so I wonder if people have better impressions about promiscuity if it's about somebody you already love. I was surprised that there were so many guys okay with dating a woman who was formerly promiscuous. It exceeded my expectations, so I guess that's interesting. I wonder what the numbers would have looked like if the polls were sub-stratified by people who've never dated versus those that have (given that most of NUF is single and has never dated). I wonder if the have-never-dated guys have a more idealistic view? Or perhaps a more desperate view? I guess this poll also shed light on my own biases as well. xD The culture of "slut-shaming" is just as rampant among women, and is sometimes just as bad or even worse than male thoughts on sexually promiscuous women. Though I think it depends a lot on what kind of culture you grew up in, and also where.
What's the difference between one and hundred? If you're fine with the fact that she's not a virgin, you shouldn't care even if over a thousand men had ejaculated inside of her vagina before.
I was about to say I lost count, but then I read further and notice you mention sexual partner. Hum, well, that's kind of complicated to answer. But if we just talk about ex boyfriends, I had more than 10 since 15 years old. But most of them weren't sexual, just boys who dated me to learn how to be good boyfriends for their future girlfriends. There was no sexual desire in the case of most of them. At most we only kissed and they held my hand.
I never hear of the opinion of women on men hahaha. But you're getting me curious about the g results of that! Should we do some kind of google form to get the results?