This is a slightly more serious poll than usual! You are transmigrated into a poor family in an isekai universe, and you have a spouse and two kids. During this process, you gained the memories of the original person's body that you took over. The climate of this setting is cold (it regularly snows and freezes), and it is approaching winter. Since you are poor, you do not have enough money to pay all your bills. After taking care of the required payments, your choices are to: (A) Choose NOT to heat your home This winter, you choose not to heat your home. This means that the temperatures inside your home will be sub-zero, and the water pipes will freeze. Anticipating this, you shut off the water supply to your home in advance to prevent the pipes from bursting. However, this means you will have no running water the entire winter, let alone any hot water. The house will be frigid. Everyone will need to wear outdoor clothing inside the house, and everyone will go to bed bundled in their coats. If there is a cold-wave (extremely cold temperatures), your family risks getting frost-bite or dying from the cold. You do not have the money to afford space heaters or alternative heating methods. (B) Choose NOT to feed your kids properly Good nutrition is important for the proper development of kids. Despite this, you choose to sacrifice your groceries this winter. This means that you will consistently buy the cheapest groceries — which means your family will eat rice and beans for months. You will not buy vegetables or fruits or meats because they are expensive. Your kids will be hungry because you ration the meals to make sure that you have enough to last every week. Notes: The setting is an isekai universe with the equivalent technology of Earth in the 1940s. There are no government/religious social programs or free food available in your area. You do not have any other relatives or friends your family can freeload off of. Getting a better job is not possible without quitting your existing ones. You are already working 80 hours a week. Your spouse is unable to work due to disability reasons. There is no financial benefit from getting divorced. 1. Do you choose food or heat? Why? 2. If you transmigrated to be the breadwinner of a poor family, would you ditch them? Or would you stay and continue to support them? 3. If you transmigrated into a family with biological kids (that the prior "you" conceived), would you see those kids as your own? 4. What would you do with the "spouse" that you suddenly gained? 5. Would you keep your transmigration status secret or would you tell people?