[Poll] Would you slap a masochist boyfriend/girlfriend? (NSFW)

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Would you slap a masochist boyfriend/girlfriend?

  1. I'm male - Yes - I'd be thrilled about this! Because I'm a 100% sadist!

    5 vote(s)
    8.5%
  2. I'm male - Yes - I'd look forward to trying it; I might have some BDSM interest

    10 vote(s)
    16.9%
  3. I'm male - Yes - I'd be willing to try it and it's fine with me

    8 vote(s)
    13.6%
  4. I'm male - Yes - I'd be willing to try it... only to please my partner

    10 vote(s)
    16.9%
  5. I'm male - Yes - But I'm very very reluctant to try it...

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  6. I'm male - Maybe - I need more time to consider this

    2 vote(s)
    3.4%
  7. I'm male - No - Because I have zero interest in this

    2 vote(s)
    3.4%
  8. I'm male - No - Because it goes against my morals

    1 vote(s)
    1.7%
  9. I'm male - No - Because it goes against my religion

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  10. I'm male - No - Because I think it's abhorrent/unnatural/disgusting

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  11. I'm male - No - For practical/logistical reasons

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  12. I'm male - No - Not interested in dating/intimate/sexual things

    2 vote(s)
    3.4%
  13. I'm male - No - For other reasons

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  14. I'm female - Yes - I'd be thrilled about this! Because I'm a 100% sadist!

    1 vote(s)
    1.7%
  15. I'm female - Yes - I'd look forward to trying it; I might have some BDSM interest

    4 vote(s)
    6.8%
  16. I'm female - Yes - I'd be willing to try it and it's fine with me

    4 vote(s)
    6.8%
  17. I'm female - Yes - I'd be willing to try it... only to please my partner

    4 vote(s)
    6.8%
  18. I'm female - Yes - But I'm very very reluctant to try it...

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  19. I'm female - Maybe - I need more time to consider this

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  20. I'm female - No - Because I have zero interest in this

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  21. I'm female - No - Because it goes against my morals

    1 vote(s)
    1.7%
  22. I'm female - No - Because it goes against my religion

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  23. I'm female - No - Because I think it's abhorrent/unnatural/disgusting

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  24. I'm female - No - For practical/logistical reasons

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  25. I'm female - No - Not interested in dating/intimate/sexual things

    1 vote(s)
    1.7%
  26. I'm female - No - For other reasons

    1 vote(s)
    1.7%
  27. I'm unsure

    2 vote(s)
    3.4%
  28. I do not wish to answer

    1 vote(s)
    1.7%
  1. lychee

    lychee [- slightly morbid fruit -] ❀[ 恋爱? ]❀

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    This is an awkwardly morbid poll! :blobjoy::blobjoy::blobjoy: And also because I am interested in the gender differences.

    Pretend that you are dating and you have a boyfriend/girlfriend.

    One day your significant other confides in you that they have a serious masochistic streak, and it would make them really happy/excited/thrilled/ecstatic if you incorporated slapping them into the next time you share an intimate moment with each other.


    They tell you that consent and safety is really important, and mostly it would be a form of roleplay. There would be a safeword, which is a phrase that means "STOP" immediately.

    That said, your significant other is serious about the slapping. They want it to actually hurt (not just playful "pretend" slapping), and they tell you that they might shout/cry/sob/struggle during it. However, they reassure you that regardless of how they appear to you, unless they use their safeword, they are actually enjoying it.

    Would you consider going along with your partner's interest?

    1. How would you respond to this situation? What are your concerns?

    2. Would you try a partner's fetish even if you weren't interested in it yourself?

    3. How would you handle a relationship where your SO has a fetish that you won't/can't reciprocate? Would it become a difficult point between you?

    4. At what point does a fetish cross a line and become a problem, in your opinion?
     
  2. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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    *Cleans out @lychee's brain*
    :blobcheeky: Maybe you DO need that break, hahahahahah! :blob_zipper_mouth::blobpopcorn:
     
  3. juniorjawz

    juniorjawz Well-Known Member

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    Slapping huh. Not my kind of thing.
     
  4. elengee

    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    I'd only c*ntpunt her. :blobpeek:
     
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  5. Mateeushoffman

    Mateeushoffman [吾輩はネコである]

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    Yes I would try just a little, only to please my partner. I hope my future wife is not into this sort of stuff though..
     
  6. Anra7777

    Anra7777 All powerful magic grammar hamster queen. Evil?

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    Nope. Nope. Nope. I’d have to explain that he won’t get that from me, and if he can’t live without that aspect in his intimacy, we should consider breaking up.

    Depending on the fetish, I might consider trying it. But pain? NOPE!
     
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  7. Raneday

    Raneday Witch of Nonsense

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    lol you do know that you're kinda rubbing salts to the ones who don't have one? :blobsalt::blobsalt::blobsalt:

    Maybe you, yourself is also a Sadist? :blobsweat::blobsweat::blobsweat:
     
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  8. Arcadia Blade

    Arcadia Blade 《Seeking One Perfect Watermelon》

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    1. How would you respond to this situation? What are your concerns?
    As long as she won't laugh at my glasses, short hair and voice fetish, i'm fine her being a masochist.

    2. Would you try a partner's fetish even if you weren't interested in it yourself?
    Fck no. I'm already being bullied enough hy my family. I know that i'm not a masochist.
    3. How would you handle a relationship where your SO has a fetish that you won't/can't reciprocate? Would it become a difficult point between you?
    There are times where you can't accept their fetishes but i don't deny nor hate what she likes. But we would slowly come together and accept the compromise, even if we can't fully satisfy one another.

    4. At what point does a fetish cross a line and become a problem, in your opinion?
    Scat, Vore, Furry, Ryona, and other fcked up sht.
     
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  9. Momoyuki

    Momoyuki ❄Baby dragon❄「Translating」

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    Hmm I guess in this context I wouldn’t refuse immediately but I don’t know if I could actually do it. But I think it would be hard to continue if this was necessary every single time.
     
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  10. lychee

    lychee [- slightly morbid fruit -] ❀[ 恋爱? ]❀

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    :blobcry::blobcry::blobcry: I never understood what was wrong with this!
     
  11. Arcadia Blade

    Arcadia Blade 《Seeking One Perfect Watermelon》

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    Once you step unto the furry hole, there's no going back.
     
  12. kkgoh

    kkgoh Well-Known Member

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    Dunno half of what you said and can't be bothered to Google. But I was watching "Archer" the other day and only just realized Gilf was a thing :whistle:
     
  13. lychee

    lychee [- slightly morbid fruit -] ❀[ 恋爱? ]❀

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    But the thing is, imo BDSM is a lot more messed up than furry!

    Like, I did pokemon forum roleplays growing up! Who doesn't ship a cyndaquil with a chikorita?

    The ship can be cute!
     
  14. Shadowhawkstar

    Shadowhawkstar Well-Known Member

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    Since I'm generally a softie, I don't even like hitting people outside of anger. However I'm also willing to bend something like this, which isn't necessarily against my morals or anything if my spouse really wanted it . I would feel a bit uncomfortable but anything for her I guess
    1. I'd be like aight if you like .
    2. If it makes her stick around.
    3. I would have to respectfully decline/ talk it out .
    4. Cuckold . Vore and extreme stuff , I'm a relatively simple man .
     
  15. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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    QAQ *sulks in corner*
    You're just as bad!
     
  16. Estarossa

    Estarossa 《Master of Dessert》《Ultra-Instinct Eater》

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    Just the ass id slap.

     
  17. HamsterOverlord-sama

    HamsterOverlord-sama outer god, eldich abomination of fluffy lovelyness

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    I don't do weird things
     
  18. Mateeushoffman

    Mateeushoffman [吾輩はネコである]

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    What is vore? I don't know what it is and I don't think I'm ready to search it on Google.
     
  19. Arcadia Blade

    Arcadia Blade 《Seeking One Perfect Watermelon》

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    Scat - It involves poop
    Vore - Gore but in a sexualize way.
    Ryona - Less of a Rape and more of a Sexual Sadistic approach. More common as Brutal Sex.

    *Thought process slow down*Uhh....y-yeah. But there's this thing called animal sexuality and its morals are kinda wrong....
     
  20. Anra7777

    Anra7777 All powerful magic grammar hamster queen. Evil?

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    As I understand it, it’s this weird thing where you eat the other person. But in fiction they don’t necessarily die from it? I don’t get the appeal myself.
     
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