[Poll] Would you slap a masochist boyfriend/girlfriend? (NSFW)

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Would you slap a masochist boyfriend/girlfriend?

  1. I'm male - Yes - I'd be thrilled about this! Because I'm a 100% sadist!

    5 vote(s)
    8.2%
  2. I'm male - Yes - I'd look forward to trying it; I might have some BDSM interest

    10 vote(s)
    16.4%
  3. I'm male - Yes - I'd be willing to try it and it's fine with me

    9 vote(s)
    14.8%
  4. I'm male - Yes - I'd be willing to try it... only to please my partner

    10 vote(s)
    16.4%
  5. I'm male - Yes - But I'm very very reluctant to try it...

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  6. I'm male - Maybe - I need more time to consider this

    2 vote(s)
    3.3%
  7. I'm male - No - Because I have zero interest in this

    2 vote(s)
    3.3%
  8. I'm male - No - Because it goes against my morals

    1 vote(s)
    1.6%
  9. I'm male - No - Because it goes against my religion

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  10. I'm male - No - Because I think it's abhorrent/unnatural/disgusting

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  11. I'm male - No - For practical/logistical reasons

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  12. I'm male - No - Not interested in dating/intimate/sexual things

    2 vote(s)
    3.3%
  13. I'm male - No - For other reasons

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  14. I'm female - Yes - I'd be thrilled about this! Because I'm a 100% sadist!

    1 vote(s)
    1.6%
  15. I'm female - Yes - I'd look forward to trying it; I might have some BDSM interest

    4 vote(s)
    6.6%
  16. I'm female - Yes - I'd be willing to try it and it's fine with me

    4 vote(s)
    6.6%
  17. I'm female - Yes - I'd be willing to try it... only to please my partner

    5 vote(s)
    8.2%
  18. I'm female - Yes - But I'm very very reluctant to try it...

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  19. I'm female - Maybe - I need more time to consider this

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  20. I'm female - No - Because I have zero interest in this

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  21. I'm female - No - Because it goes against my morals

    1 vote(s)
    1.6%
  22. I'm female - No - Because it goes against my religion

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  23. I'm female - No - Because I think it's abhorrent/unnatural/disgusting

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  24. I'm female - No - For practical/logistical reasons

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  25. I'm female - No - Not interested in dating/intimate/sexual things

    1 vote(s)
    1.6%
  26. I'm female - No - For other reasons

    1 vote(s)
    1.6%
  27. I'm unsure

    2 vote(s)
    3.3%
  28. I do not wish to answer

    1 vote(s)
    1.6%
  1. lychee

    lychee [- slightly morbid fruit -] ❀[ 恋爱? ]❀

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    bestiality is totally different from furry though.

    pokemon x trainer is bad! :blobthumbsdown::blobthumbsdown::blobthumbsdown:

    pokemon x pokemon is good! :blobuwu::blobuwu::blobuwu:
     
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  2. Anra7777

    Anra7777 All powerful magic grammar hamster queen pirate.

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    I think furry is most widely understood as dressing up in a head to toe animal costume (everything completely covered) and having sex with someone who is similarly dressed? (The things I learned watching C.S.I.)
     
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  3. Arcadia Blade

    Arcadia Blade ༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ You can do it!!

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    Uhh...you don't get it. Its like trying to date a trap and think its fine since its cute but its still gay.

    Look, Furry and bestiality are just a paper thin difference and the closer you get, the harder it is to come back to. Thats why people tend to avoid furries since they know that once you come in, there's no way to come out.
     
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  4. lychee

    lychee [- slightly morbid fruit -] ❀[ 恋爱? ]❀

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    Mhm, that's the stereotype for sure!

    Although I think it's really just an external manifestation to just wanting to actually be an animal.

    Not actually because people are attracted to the costumes themselves.

    EDIT: Although realistically I think the term is used more frequently for artwork than anything IRL
     
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  5. Traveling Chef

    Traveling Chef ⁽ʕ•̀ω•́ʔ╯.+:。Professional Unichef~

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    I couldn't do it if I'm swingin' my fists around it's not for pleasure. and as long as they were ok with me not reciprocating I wouldn't care much afterward~
     
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  6. Lurking

    Lurking Do the dead suffer, or is it a sweet release?

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    Nice illustration. Beastiality is gross. Sometimes i draw something like 2- if mermaids count with scales on face n stuff. Step 3 is sonic the hedgehog- not sexual at all
    i dont. Thats fire and grass you crazy. Also they are pokemon:blobunsure: bdsm is more messed up? Are you talkin the extremely heavy stuff or just light touch bdsm where there isnt actually pain inflicted or recieved...

    Aah. I needed this years ago. Instead I found an unknown tag and decided to read it since it was a cool character I liked and I wanted to know more about my food anime character. It was vore and i cant look at toriko manga the same anymore- or at least certain characters. Also no, the 'food' didnt survive... and i now exclude anything labeled vore from my reading consumption.
    Uh? Your not getting it it seems. Furry would be pokemon x trainer. Like monstergirl pokemon? I dont pay much attention to that might be wrong name.
    Uh also like... furry conventions too. Uh, thats the bulk of my knowlegde about furries and no you dont wanna google it.
     
  7. susanty.smile

    susanty.smile [Insomniac]

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    1. How would you respond to this situation? What are your concerns?
    ah...my only concern is that i think i probably a sadist...
    i tend to wanna hit something when i was angry...
    i just afraid i hit him too much...but well, there's the safe word
    i just hope i could treat him when he bruised...

    2. Would you try a partner's fetish even if you weren't interested in it yourself?

    i never try BDSM tbh and i almost didn't like it that much...a light BDSM is ok...but it is a turn off when it gets heavy...
    well...all said, i truly love being a sadist queen in bed LOLOLOLOL

    3. How would you handle a relationship where your SO has a fetish that you won't/can't reciprocate? Would it become a difficult point between you?

    of course it will be difficult...on other hand, i want that we could feel good together...but if he really can't do without the fetish then i guess it's over for us...

    4. At what point does a fetish cross a line and become a problem, in your opinion?

    well...heavy BDSM is totally a problem... i really don't like hitting someone till they bleed okay...even a bruise is almost too much for me...
    choking is totally a problem!!! that's walking in thin line to death okay!!! NO NO!!! NO!
    as much as i wanna die, i don't wanna invoke someone who take pleasure in almost die...
    even reading H with choking play turn me off so much
     
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  8. lychee

    lychee [- slightly morbid fruit -] ❀[ 恋爱? ]❀

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    XD the original inspiration for this poll is one of my online friends who is into choking. She can’t find anyone who will do it to her :blobjoy:
     
  9. susanty.smile

    susanty.smile [Insomniac]

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    omg.....omg......wow...wow
    i shed tears for her...
    i mean, i respect her fetish and i am sad there is less chances to find someone who is into that
    it's not easy to control choking, the safe word should and would be gesture or action since she probably couldn't speak when being choke...
    uwa....so scary ><
     
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  10. Bakaturq

    Bakaturq Tell me, what do you see?

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    I thought you were gonna ask: would you slap a masochist?
    And i would reply, if i get paid.
     
  11. Arcturus

    Arcturus Cat, Hidden Sith Lord

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    Well depending upon the fanfic, Pokemon are sentient and sapient creatures able to give consent. So it wouldn't be bestiality, more something like xenophilia.
     
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  12. Arcturus

    Arcturus Cat, Hidden Sith Lord

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    Furry and Beastiality are quite different due to the aspect of sapience/sentience. The most problematic part of bestiality isn't the fur, but the lack of ability for an animal to give consent in such a relationship. Similar to how children can't give consent.
     
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  13. lychee

    lychee [- slightly morbid fruit -] ❀[ 恋爱? ]❀

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    I feel like I still disagree about the difference being paper thin. I think the critical thing to understand about the furry fandom is that it’s about self-identity (seeing oneself as a anthropomorphized animal), not because people have an inherent sexual attraction to animals. Bestiality (sex between a human and dumb animal) has zero furry element to it, and I’ve never heard of a furry being interested in it.

    So I looked this up afterwards, but the statistic is that only 10-25% of furries even own a partial fursuit (let alone even a complete one).

    It’s a highly misrepresented part of the fandom; it’s highly visible and frequently reported on part from the media, but it would be wrong to say that a majority of furries do it or are even interested.

    :notlikeblob::notlikeblob::notlikeblob: I’m really only revisiting this because I’m quite positive the middle school me could be considered a furry, and I think there is a serious misunderstanding about the overall fandom (I mean, of course you can rule 36 anything).

    To me, the broadest definition of a furry is someone who identifies with an animal in any fashion, and expresses that identity in some fashion.

    When I was thirteen, I really liked animals and did animal forum roleplays — like the kind where it is catverse and everyone is a cat and lives in a forest.

    The are many books that anthropomorphize animals in this fashion — from children’s books, the Redwall series, Warriors series, and tons and tons of books.

    Of course this was 0% sexual. No one ever said that roleplaying animals must mean that is sexual. We just liked animals.

    As I got older, I started doing artwork and I drew animals on deviantart. Keep in mind that the Zootopia depiction of animals is still very different from a realistic depiction of animals. Essentially I did Zootopia-style deviantart drawings and made a lot of friends there.

    Still nothing sexual.

    When you roleplay as animals for so long, inevitably you start feeling like there is an animal you feel like represents you better than other animals.

    I had a Fursona on devianart in middle school that I drew — because I felt like cats represented me best.

    I had a chuunibyou period online when I appended nyaaaa to everything I said.

    There is nothing sexual here because there is nothing inherently sexual about furries unless someone decides to sexualize it!!!! >.<

    It’s similar to the my little pony fandom that is similarly stigmatized — the content itself isn’t sexual — of course you will get people who sexualize it. That is rule 36 or 34 or 32 of the Internet I forget which one.

    You could take the sweetest and cutest thing in the world and there will be people who make boatloads of porn of it — but that doesn’t even mean that the majority of the fandom is that way.

    Sex/Porn/Fursuits play a minority role into what most people get into the furry fandom for.

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    There is Pokemon gijinka.

    What I mean by the x is by shipping.

    Shipping a Pokemon with a regular human is weird af

    Shipping a Pokemon with a Pokemon is the limit of what most furries are interested in
     
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  14. Arcturus

    Arcturus Cat, Hidden Sith Lord

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    Also, those who are aware of my fetishes know where my opinion falls here.
     
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  15. Lurking

    Lurking Do the dead suffer, or is it a sweet release?

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    ...

    You know.. humans are animals?
     
  16. Lazriser

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    1. Honestly, I've been meaning to ask if she was into hardcore sex.
    2. I don't know, I might be interested... but emotional or psychological pain is a no go for me.
    3. If I had a SO who was into real life unhygienic fetishes or morally deprave relationships, I believe that would be a sign of breaking off our relationship.
    4. When it hurts a person and SO doesn't give fuck about me, then why the fuck am I even doing this shit. (Poor fellas who are in hypothetical situations like those. Fiction or non-fiction!)
     
  17. Ddraig

    Ddraig Frostfire Dragon|Retired lurker|FFF|Loved by RNG

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    While I agree defining it like this has some side effects. Like it implies that if animals can give consent it is A-okay. Which to be fair is controversial yet probably should be how it is.
    But more importantly it means that if pokemon existed and considering how human-level smart they often are, this means that all trainer x gardevoir/lopunny stuff is not problematic at all. Hmm
     
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    1. Dunno... its slightly disconcerting and might be or might become a real problem... While I am into BDSM more or less... I am not really into the giving/taking of physical pain part of it and it is... somewhat off putting...

    2. If I am merely not interested then why not, but if its actually off putting then... no...
    3. If its merely something I am not really into then its "ok", but if its actually off putting...
    4. It becomes a problem when it becomes an actual problem...
     
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  19. Arcturus

    Arcturus Cat, Hidden Sith Lord

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    The question is what is "wrong" for you? If it's different species, then why are you fine with half-elves, etc in fantasy? The easiest line to make without getting close to saying "I don't want anyone like me screwing anyone not like me" which is a very morally dubious position to take, is on sapience.
     
  20. Lurking

    Lurking Do the dead suffer, or is it a sweet release?

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    Eh

    Humanxhuman
    Sure

    Humanxprimarily human in appearance other species(ie an elf aka a human with pointy ears or a human with animal ears/tail)
    Why not

    Humanxfur covered quadrupedal
    No fucking way sicko