Quirks,traits and how we percieve them

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  1. OnceandFutureLurker

    OnceandFutureLurker Well-Known Member

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    What are the various quirks, character traits or even pet peeves that you can list which you find endearing , adorable or at least tolerate being displayed by loved ones(either those we love or those who love us ). But you find as appalling ,offensive ,repeling or generally offputting in others. Answering is of course optional )
    Mine would be my sister calling me a nickname based on my real name , whch hereto i have not allowed for any length of time by others
     
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  2. otaku31

    otaku31 Well-Known Member

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    Talking too much. :blobpeek:

    I can endure my family members going on and on about something, but I'm not too tolerant of this trait when it comes to others.
     
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  3. listener

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    the loved ones ? Someone who loved us or someone we loved ?
     
  4. OnceandFutureLurker

    OnceandFutureLurker Well-Known Member

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    both work
     
  5. listener

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    @Scheherazade what do you think ?
     
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    If this is a question that needs an answer i would say I like it when my parents play with my ears, others are not allowed to get close not even aunts or cousins. I like being doted on when i say I do that might sound demanding but I want to get a job so bad but Everytime I ask my parents they no and just gives me money like I know I’m lazy but I don’t want to be that person that has no experience. I hate it when someone makes me watch something I don’t like but you know those people that when they want you to watch something they are literally breathing on your neck and always asking ‘are you watching, ‘did you see it’ well that person is me. It’s very hypocritical but whatever.
    That took too long to write.
     
  7. Tilgarial

    Tilgarial [Tiger of inconsistent chaos]

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    Well... thats a rather complicated question.
    One trait, lets say talking a lot, in combination with different traits can result in totally different things.
    My example - talking alot - with a slightly snobbish attitude, may result in somebody seeming totally obnoxious
    However, if they are instead a happy-go-lucky type or so, it could be quite cute~
    And such things.
    So its kinda hard to pick that one thing that makes it all work, ya know?
     
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    OnceandFutureLurker Well-Known Member

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    thanks for answering)
     
  9. Scheherazade

    Scheherazade aw fk yis i love bees

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    This is a hard question. Let me think on it. What do you think?
     
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    maybe snuggling , it's okay for us, but no for others
     
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    Physical contact. I despise it when most people touch me too much, but it's fine when people I'm close to do it.
     
  12. Scheherazade

    Scheherazade aw fk yis i love bees

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    Okay, here’s one.

    Scheherazade can be a Tsunderezade at times. I sometimes enjoy being teased by people I like, and this isn’t limited to guys. Girls can tease me too, and they often do. With people I like, I see their teasing as playful in a way. The rule being: they don’t cross the line and take it from teasing to insulting.

    But if I don’t like someone and they tease me, I generally don’t like that and I find it invasive. I usually see it as “making fun of me” instead of “playfully teasing me.”
     
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    can you give us example, the difference of making fun and teasing ?
     
  14. Scheherazade

    Scheherazade aw fk yis i love bees

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    It’s personal and varies person to person. You’d have to know someone well to understand how sensitive they are and what level of teasing they can tolerate. Subject matter is also a factor, along with delivery.
     
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    Femme Fatale [ Invictus ] [Daughter of Eve] [Jaded]

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    Visiting unannounced. Direct family and friends know my doors are open to them, but I hate it when people knock on my door and expect me to listen to them talk about life insurance or saving the planet. ^.^
     
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    not knock on your door, and not talk....
    are you sure it's not a thief ?:blobpeek:
     
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    Femme Fatale [ Invictus ] [Daughter of Eve] [Jaded]

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    *lols* Only strangers out of nowhere. *lols*

    Do you make it a habit of knocking on random people's houses to talk about saving the whales? >_>
     
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    Well one thing me and all my family love to do is talk about people behind their back to each other, even about other family members. But I hate it when a complete nobody who doesn’t know me or my family talk about us behind our backs. Hypocritical, I know!
     
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    so, the definition of teasing is making fun of friends but making fun other people is insulting .:blobthinkingsmirk:

    The conclusion, it's okay to insulting your friends :blob_blush: right ?
     
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    i never knocking, i just came in like a boss and sit on the bed. and the topics is about how a nuclear weapons work :blobthinkingsmirk: