Recommendations Second chances where ML misunderstood FL and decided to ask fo another chance

Hey guys! I’m looking for a novel where in the ML misunderstood the FL so he treats her coldly but then realizes his wrongdoings so he ask for second chances. The FL should not easily swayed before they get back together. The ML should suffer first before the FL accepted him back

 

Maybe Three Lives Three Worlds The pillow book there’s a misunderstanding later where

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ml erases fl’s memories and figures out and it spirals to this huge misunderstanding and the fl leaves him and he cant find her blah blah and he tries to explain to her / ask for forgiveness and blah blah bunch of angst lmao

but idk if it’s exactly what you’re looking for either way it’s a really good novel