Discussion Sleep. But tired still.

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Mr. Tired, Sep 26, 2021.

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Do you wake up energized, or wake up tired?

  1. I wake up ready to start the day :)

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  2. I wake up.

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  3. I wake up and have to drag myself out of bed TT__TT

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  4. Zzzzz...

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  1. Mr. Tired

    Mr. Tired Professional Idiot

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    Obviously, sleep is important. We need it so we can recharge and get through the day.
    There was even a study saying lack of sleep can reduce your lifetime. That's...rather scary to think about knowing a lot of us don't get enough. Either we have issues sleeping, there are outside factors taking it away, or you're choosing to not sleep and do something else instead. (I know you wanna binge those stories darling, but you need sleep...)

    Either way, we need sleep. But my question is this:
    I sleep barely 4 hours and wake up pretty tired of course, but usually fine. But when I sleep ''approximately'' or more than 6 hours, the time that is said to be required, I still wake up super sleepy and feel ridiculously fatigued.

    If anything, sleeping less makes me feel less tired when I wake up, and then when it's the end of the day, I feel overwhelmed and tired. But then I can never get to sleep, only sleeping a little or even a less amount than last night. And then the cycle repeats.
    I don't know what to do by this point, but I'm wondering how does less sleep, though making me feel tired later, has me feeling less tired when I wake, but more sleep makes me feel dead inside and lagging all throughout the day?

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    Personally, my main troubles with sleeping are thoughts/anxiety keeping me awake, neighbors being loud, & always experiencing that 'fall' thing every time I'm about to sleep.

    And correct me if I was misinformed, but I read somewhere that the 'fall' thing we feel when going to sleep is our mind forcefully waking us up when it feels like the body is shutting down [too quickly perhaps?] or ''dying''? Not sure, it was a very vague explanation.

    Also, does anyone else hate it, because it is the literal definition of a mind f~ck, I loathe the people who never experienced it before.


    I'm so tired. ::blobcatsad::
     
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  2. Wrath444

    Wrath444 Life is such a glorious trauma, is it not?

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    I’m dying any minute then
     
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  3. otaku31

    otaku31 Well-Known Member

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    Not sure, but it might have more to do with the quality of your sleep than the hours. :hmm:
    I need at least seven hours quality sleep to function properly.
     
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    too much sleep
     
  5. Mr. Tired

    Mr. Tired Professional Idiot

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    Quality?? Do I need to upgrade my bed, like in the Sims? :blobwoah:??
     
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    otaku31 Well-Known Member

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    Google 'sleep quality'. Never needed those advices, but they might prove helpful to you.
     
  7. nadia88

    nadia88 Active Member

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    I've never had any problem sleeping and I normally wake up feeling fine. The only time I ever don't get enough is when I stay up reading or something XD. Although my grandma is an insomiac, so I've done a little research to try and help her before. Have you ever tried taking melatonin? You might also try not using any screens an hour before bed/turning on a blue light filter on devices. Or exercising! Whenever I exercise I'm always extra extra sleepy. It could be also that your circadian rhythm is off. Teenagers and people with adhd, are know for having werid circadian rhythm, but anyone can still have one.
     
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    kkgoh Well-Known Member

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    They are called hypnic jerks.
    Everything from caffeine OD, stress, normal sleep transition, to evolutionary fears of our monkey brains falling from trees.
    Very common, 70% of the population has it but aren't always conscious of it.
     
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    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    There's various layers of brain activity you go through while you sleep, a proper sleep will have to be a certain depth and undisturbed to reach REM phase and properly restore your fatigue. I've slept for 24 hours before, woke up sleepy, lol.
     
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    Getting good sleep is hard. None of us want reduce our lifespans but harder fall good sleep and get enough hrs of sleep, be it fun things that keep us up late (stories, videogames, etc)., or work and childcare, stress, etc. Maybe not used to sleep schedule? From usual 4 hrs to suddenly 6 hrs out of nowhere?
     
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  11. Bad Storm

    Bad Storm no thought, head empty

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    It's the quality of sleep you're having. I find having a routine before sleeping helps me have a more relaxing sleep, waking up in good shape.
    There are many factors for a good sleep tho. bed pillow, temperature, blanket, what you ate, did you put down electronics and got on the bed, do you play music at night etc etc. In the end, it's a matter of trial and error of what works best for you.

    There were days when I always wake up around 2-4am. If I miss the chance to fall asleep immediately, I'd be suffering when morning comes.
     
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  12. RizYun

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    It's 01:00 AM (GMT+7) over here. yet to sleep, but in half awake condition...
    cant sleep w/o doing some sacred ritual....
    O-Ni..:blobsleeping::blobsleeping:
     
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    I have insomnia. I have become so used to bad sleep that whenever I actually get the complete 8-9 hour package I wake up like a zombie and stay that way the entire day afterward.
     
  14. Lissi

    Lissi 『Queen of Lissidom』『Holy Chibi』『Western Birdy』『⚓』

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    I just wake up... and stay in bed... on my phone... and then I get up for school! :cookie:

    But I'm so tired every day ahh not enough sleep
     
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  15. Sawanara murasaki

    Sawanara murasaki Sawa the HEro-sensei

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    I can't stay awake for more than 4 hours since the lockdown, if I do too, that's the greatest achievement for me but it was the opposite during school day, tired but couldn't sleep properly.

    P.S. I sleep for more than 14 hours(minimum requirement) a day
     
  16. samyjackson

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    Same here..:blobsleeping:
     
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    If you sleep for 8-9 hours and still feel tired you have a health issue. Don't count on doctors to be of any help, they are hacks.