So it turns out that to help treat mental illness you need people. What a shocker..NOT! https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-50314819 I don't know how long the "Happy Loner" narrative is going to survive. https://mydramalist.com/23442-the-happy-loner People brag about preferring to being alone but get on social platforms like this website Compliments are free. Give them freely. Hugs are cool A great video posted by @GDLiZy
Humans are social creatures and be nice to people around you You are not exactly alone on this forum I will believe you if you start a forum with only yourself as the member
Pal, I miss this guy, How the author seems stuck with continuation of LN is a level warning, REMEMBER November 19, 2019 Vol.14
As someone who is too afraid of reading NTR, i admit i don't like being all alone. But if am given a change to live in a mountain with internet!? heck! why not! also if you think your brave enough to be alone read NTR.
Humans indeed are social creatures, and humans that don't get their social needs satisfied frankly get depression, suicidal thoughts, and mentally degenerate. This however stands apart from the concept of liking to be alone. The worrisome people are those who are never with others, not necessarily the ones who are rarely with others. But yes indeed proper kind encouragement, and respect are not only good things to do, they're great to do and almost free anyway. If you as a person feeæ awkward with hugging someone, start by thanking the cashier when going shopping, wish people a nice day, encourage good behaviour by setting a good example.
Nothing wrong with choosing to be alone part of the time (for some people, even the majority), what's not fine, is being alone because everyone has abandoned you, and don't in any way try to include you. So you do you, as long as it's by choice and not because others made that xhoice for you.
true and false. there exist anomalies as always. yea, how about no. humans are vulgar creatures bent on person benefit.
There is a difference in being alone and being lonely It is good if you wanted to help lonely people and socialize, but some people prefer to spend more time on their own, with school/workplace force you to socialize regardless of your will, some people might prefer to spend their free time alone or with few people that they care about Forcing your goodwill to other people is not kindness
imma just sumwan whose job's only scrollling mice on 1 hand while the other hand's doin exercises under ma pants '...
In general? Lower life expectancy Lower quality of life Lack of safety nets Theres more, but those are some big ones. I get that you're joking, but it really isn't a joking matter.
The chemicals in your brain begs to differ. Why do you think people like to smoke weed? It is became it releases similar chemical in the brain that we get from companionship Science and history has proven otherwise We are just looking for substitutes to companionship which have awful side effects
I get where that is coming from, call it experience. If someone is alone because they were abandoned by everyone, then everyone is not worth being with. The sooner these pseudo-loners realize that, the earlier they will get out of depression. Of course, people who don't want to be alone will feel lonely. The only solution(temporary) I know for that is to find something else to fill that gap with, even if that something is not real. I am sure many of us here read novels partly to cope with loneliness or depression. If we could find people to help us cure loneliness, we wouldn't be lonely in the first place. For a more permanent solution, I guess you just get used to it, like everything else in life.
I'd like to have healthy relationships with a bunch of friends, I really would... But maintaining a friendship is like building a sandcastle too close to the water; stop paying attention and building it up for too long, and it collapses almost into nothing... And I'm a lazy guy. So hard to be close friends with someone if you don't have a place you both frequent - school, work, sport, etc. Nobody seems to be willing to put in that work. Well, it's not like I have anyone to blame but myself for how few real friends I have, though. I enjoy solitude, but (almost) everything's more fun if you can enjoy it with a friend.