Discussion Starting a Conversation

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  1. amilhs

    amilhs Moon Walker

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    Best to do for starters is to say Hi~ or a greeting~and don't forget to smile and look friendly~ then talk about something for a few secs(any will do like direction even if it's not really what you wanted, time,if you can share a table/chair...any excuses..any that you'll get her attention to you and she will talk to you~xD) then after you'll get her name~ and number~
     
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  2. Shizukani

    Shizukani Chronically stressed

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    No... remember the part about being overbearing :meowknife:
     
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    :coffee::coffee: LMAO dont do any of those a, b or c

    It also depends on the place that you are , if you're in class you can form conversations about that and if you think they would be into it ask to go on a study date or smthing of that nature

    If you just see someone in public you think is cute its best to just be honest and tell them you thought they were cute and ask them if you could get their number, but some people don't like giving their number so you might have to ask for their Instagram or snap and then after chatting with them more on there ( from their stories/moments or posts ) if they get more comfortable they might give you their number

    The thing is no matter how awkward it is for you just pretend like its not, that doesn't mean you push the conversation when you know they feel awkward about answer or they clearly don't want to talk to you it's more like if they are having trouble answering something or making conversations about a topic you just laugh it off and move onto something else that would be easier to talk abt for them.

    Also if you sit down somewhere and there is somebody beside you just say hello, especially if you are going to be sitting near them a lot. You don't even have to continue the conversation if you don't feel like it, one day you can compliment them and say hi , another day you can just say hi
    Also learn peoples names:coffee:
    (n) Those things work for me, I also make more friends that like to talk about things a lot so it makes it easier for me to comment every now and then because they always have something fun to say
     
  4. Silver Snake

    Silver Snake Magician of NUF|Show-off|Awkward|Genius

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    Can't believe this thread got necro'd, makes me feel sooo old.

    In case anyone is interested, nowadays I just ask girls if they want to go out with me.
     
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  5. amilhs

    amilhs Moon Walker

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    Aw..
    Shiiii...
    Just asking..
    Did you succeed~??
    I'm here before it got necr'd
     
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  6. Orris

    Orris 『 最 強 ⑨ ~ 』

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    eeehh congrats on getting over your anxiety :meowflower::blobparty::meowflower:
     
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  7. Silver Snake

    Silver Snake Magician of NUF|Show-off|Awkward|Genius

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    Yeah, she said yes.
    Thx
     
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  8. amilhs

    amilhs Moon Walker

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    Congratz~ <3
     
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    _Sleepylish_ Well-Known Member

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    Oof, that might have worked lol :blobsmirk::blobsmirk:

    Or... They will just run off with the phone in hand... Like me... blob_crimeblob_crime

    You know what, I better start to take some notes too...

    Tho I'm a girl, I also want to have some cool/different/awesome methods to start a conversation with! :sushi_cool::sushi_cool:
     
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  10. yorstruly

    yorstruly 【Shadow of Death with Odd Angel like Wings】

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    passing byyy~
     
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