Discussion The boy's words mean...

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  1. By.Eve

    By.Eve Well-Known Member

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    "are you not bored calling me again after the morning you are called?"
    The questions is:
    What the boy's words mean?!
    please help me translating their means...


    P.S.
    The boys ask the girl who like him and he also like her but, the gir is an agressive type and the boy is mature type.
     
  2. ReaderReader

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    ... The boy called the girl
    talked
    hang up
    a little time after the girl called the boy
    and the boys says .. that


    it would be easier with raws
     
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  3. Esha07

    Esha07 ☄yours favorite meanie࿐ྂ

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    Why this is MTL-ed?!
     
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    No...
    This night my friend ask me that, she ask me...
    "Eve, do you knows what he means?!"

    So i gave her some answers but i also want to knows...?
    This is my answer to her
    1. Maybe he is busy cause you called him in the middle of his works and he has stress when solving his work and you are calling him?
    2. He is bored with your phone call cause you want to be pampered but you don't want to knows his conditions.
    3. He is illfeel or disgust with your act who always called him twice or trice a day?

    Pardon me for the broken English...
     
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    Zeusomega M.D of Olympus Pvt Ltd. Seeking [Boltzmann brain]

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    Guessing it's a bit of all of them....

    Tell your friend not to jump to conclusions so easily
     
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    Thank Elder
     
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    Maybe......
    The boy feels like he doesn't have enough private time or space. The girl doesn't have a life and should probably focus on herself better.

    In the future the boy may or may not but probably will feel suffocated.

    So many possibilities but it'll be resolved if girl just ask like "oh what did you mean by that, cause I didn't quite get it".:blobpats:
     
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    Suggesting your friend asks her boyfriend of why he said that instead of jumping to conclusions thooooooo....

    Is the boy too busy to even pick up his gf's call?!
     
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    I don't knows? She just told me likes what i was wrote above. But from what i saw,,, when the boy will be busy he always tried gave the girl news 2/3 days before he gotten busy that will not pick her phone call?
     
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    Depends on the tone. Was he maybe jokingly asking? Or maybe feeling insecure about whether the girl is getting bored of him? Can't say much.
     
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    So did he notified this time beforehand?
     
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    Tell her not to be too clingy. People need some personal space even in love. Unless it's something urgent or you forgot to say something in the previous phone call, but keep it short and to the point. People have stuff to do other than sit and talk on the phone.
     
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    Yes I agree, don't be clingy in love. My sister got sick of her boyfriend because he always called her, and won't even let her shut off the video call even when she sleep. She can preserve for some times, but in the end choose to broke up with him. Seriously that guy is sick in the head.
     
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    Ohh?!! I never think the second opinion... But i will never said he is insecure the boy is the older one about 7 years?! :hmm:
    What i'm afraid is,, the man -well i changed from boy to man cause his actual age is 37 to 38 in April.- is got annoyed insted from how my friend's act?!

    He is... And if he will go to work in the 6 he will gave news to my friend that h goes to work.
    But the man don't want to gave my friend affirmation that he like my friend?! Or should i write Love instead of like?!

    She has... But if she didn't make phone in the night he will ask her "where have you been in the noon? -or somethings similar?!

    Oh yeah... I knows that feel...
    I got one ex like that too...
     
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    on speaking language the meaning really depend on tone because it give more nuance~

    it can mean teasing, neutral, pure curiosity, or annoyed~ depend on detail of their personality, relationship, and condition when such thing happen~
     
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    This is what I am also trying to say
     
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    As a man, nothing of what I say generally needs to be interpreted/dug into, unless its a joke. Not all of us are like this, but depending on tone it could very simply be curiosity. I, for one, don't use my phone very often so I would be bewildered at somebody calling 1-2 times a day. That is definitely be poor word choice though, sometimes stemming from tiredness or a lack of subjects to talk about. Especially if they talk alot, he just couldn't have anything else to talk about. Or if he's young, it could definitely be a bad way to word it, no clue.