You can't control what other people think about you any more than other people can control how you think about them. Oh they can put up a front and lead you the wrong way, but your thoughts are still your own. And it's not like you can't and don't do the same; Acting one way with your friends, another with your co-workers/classmates and yet another with your family. Just be yourself as authentically as you can. They can sort out their own thoughts.
Well just like me They think of me as a innocent child but I ignored them on purpose by showing them I don't know and understand any thing what they are talking about
Usually People describe me as easy going and someone who don’t give a sh*t in the way that I don’t care about a lot of things, I get called cold( cool) a lot and also funny and much certainly Lazy (which I’m proud of since I think it’s energy preservation mode actually) I think I’m a mesh of a lot depending on the people who I’m with and the mood.
smart but lazy, it's the impression that people around me have. they are right, but insted of lazy, i'm not motivated most of the times because i lack interest.
Both were all you, so don't worry about it. We have four self's. Public Self, Self-concept, actual self, and Ideal self. hahaha.. Me: Actually thought, I'm so open, and proud pervert that I openly read porn outside. But when I graduated and got a job, I thought, "the outside world is scary" and they thought of me as innocent, and naive. hahaha...They even treated me as a child that needs to be walked to the bus stop. TT and the things I've read, they've done it in reality, and I could only touched them on the screen, and they do it everyday. sheesh~ When they invite me to a bar, automatically, they gave me soft drinks. It's fine I don't drink alcohol. hahaha...
I also try to preserved my energy like that Yup I am also get bored to my life and don't find anything interesting around that why they also called me lazy.
I am also like that my mom think I am a Verrrrrry innocent child who cannot even cross the road.hahahhaha But l like it more bcz she always worried about me and saying that you got lost if I left you alone for one hour outside and other wise any strange person can easily manipulate me hahahhaha
People around me tend to think that I am soft spoken, mannered, a bit slow on uptakes, unconfident and a good "advise giver" Which in all honesty I wish I was those things but...I honestly don't know how to come off as that or how I did it, I just wanted to be accepted and I thought " huh let's try that" in like middle school. Guess that persona stuck with me through out high school
It happen sometime. But many do it on purpose to tease you. Let them think what they want And eat something more delicious in your dinner to lift up your mood
Believe me. I understand people judging you without knowing you. I’m big (186 cm) weight around (95 kg) dark skin. I can’t be sure, but sometimes. I feel like people are afraid of me. Even thou I’m kind and gentle. I’ve trained in martial arts. So the way I move. Can be seen as threatening. I’ve jump out of cars to help a wheelchair old lady cross the street. I’ve help people carry things when I see their having difficulties. I’ve always open doors for others. But I have also gotten complaints about me stocking someone (of course not true) because I like hanging out after school to help people. Being me. I’m always worried that I’ll be misunderstood and blamed for sexual harassment because I’m trying to be gentlemen. So yes I understand being misunderstood. I do hope it gets better for you
While I know that it is unavoidable for people to judge you, I honestly disliked being judged by others. Especially if they showed it with their actions.
I really hope people may understand you one day It's really bad that many people judge anyone by their outer appearance But I know you are a very nice guy I am your friends and I understand you. Don't listen to those people who are talking sh*t ( ) about you Oh Meeeeeeeeeeee As well
Unique personality Why they think you are a terrorist (it's really not like you gonna do any thing bad like them) just got curious