Discussion What flaw do you wish to work on?

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  1. Deleted member 348269

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    If its something as big as procrastination, what specifically fuels it that you want to fix? Could be anything you feel like you need improvement and stuff you're currently working on.
     
  2. zetsuen_dark

    zetsuen_dark [blue is the color of distance]⚓️

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    My interest span in people. Usually if I know someone irl, I usually hang with them actively for a month or two then completely ghost them because I lost interest. Kind of want to work on that but kinda not really.
     
  3. UnGrave

    UnGrave ななひ~^^

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    Getting tired of things really quickly. There are only a few things that I don't tire out from after about a month. The only consistent thing I really enjoy is Nanahira.
     
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    Sorta sounds familiar. Sometimes i tend to just drift off.
     
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    Similar to mine except much broader. My Motivation and Commitment is almost nonexistent, Once I got bored I'd immediately stop doing things and proceed to waste time doing literally nothing.
     
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    Lois. ❲.❳ Wooosh.

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    Socializing, I really have a hard time socializing with people irl and sometimes am even unable to meet them eye to eye because their gaze intimidates me. Another reason why I have a hard time socializing is because I can't help but find myself uninterested in the certain topics the people around me find interesting like things like : tiktok, instagram, social media stuff etc... and am unable to fit the norms. I'm trying to work on it but at the same time I think I'm alright with how I am since I do have some people I'm already close with.
     
  7. ListlessCat

    ListlessCat ࿈༼The Anarchic Witch༽࿈ ⦑⤉notsoGoody Good Shoes⤈⦒

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    • Procastination
    • Doesn't learn quickly
    • Biological clock always late
     
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  8. Reaper.ChaosKamifumetsu

    Reaper.ChaosKamifumetsu ‖True Chaos‖Twisted Prodigy‖True Energy‖Gamer God‖

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    First,
    making myself immortal

    Second,
    Asking doubts
    a very big problem especially many of our relatives got spooked out by it cause they were unable to answer a 5 year old doubts
    and also those doubts are very complex
     
  9. Munimuyi

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    -Procrastination
    -My Lack of interest in life
    -Me being emotionally unavailable

    A close friend of mind did seemed to have noticed me being emotionally unavailable almost all the time
     
  10. Uselessdead23

    Uselessdead23 〘Dead but alive at heart〙

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    • being too emotionally intelligent.

    Look, if you think about it, it's not that bad right? You'll know what's wrong with you, and with others, but the problems also relies on that, I can't completely hate the people I want to hate because I know and understand their own problems, and If possible I want to help them too.

    Also I know all my problems in myself, I even have plans on how to improve myself, but it's sometimes overwhelming because I have many flaws that needed to be fix, it's like I'm helpless.

    And I also know the reason why it's overwhelming but I'm still overwhelmed I'm frustrated at the fact that I'm still affected even tho I know why.

    It's like my mind is having a race to each other, I process things faster but my reaction time is late and caching up.

    A blessing but a curse at the same time.
     
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    nyamachi [Chaos Twin :3] [Melo fanclub member]

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    Mental toughness? Like being able to push through discomfort and endure a bit longer~

    Also articulating myself better ^ ^ I feel like I tend to speak too casually/occasionally add nya's which isn't okay professionally... - o -
     
  12. Lissi

    Lissi 『Queen of Lissidom』『Holy Chibi』『Western Birdy』『⚓』

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    I need to "fix" the amount of time I spend in NUF so I can get work done :blobcry:
     
  13. FIEND

    FIEND copium dealer

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    I luv me
     
  14. Almaa

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    I don't really have something that i want to work on, i'm fine with the way things are and the way i am
     
  15. AliceShiki

    AliceShiki 『Ms. Tree』『Magical Girl of Love and Justice』

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    I need to beat my procrastination to work... Every day is a struggle tbh...
     
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    yep.
     
  17. Bad Storm

    Bad Storm »Empty with holes«

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    I want to broaden my skill set! Given the opportunity and resources, I would want to pick up more and more life skills and technical skills. Would be nice to fatten up my resume too haha.
     
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    Same. I wanna fatten it up too.
     
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    Bad Storm »Empty with holes«

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    but I'm not sure which skills to pick up hahaha
     
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  20. wasntbornyesterday

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    same here. Hmmm but finding out how to make scented candles doesn't sound bad...
     
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