Discussion What is love?

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What is love?

  1. Love is something unique and precious.

    13.9%
  2. Love is life.

    8.3%
  3. Love is crazy.

    13.9%
  4. Food is love.

    30.6%
  5. Love is a tragedy.

    2.8%
  6. Love is something I hate and I am afraid of.

    2.8%
  7. Life is boring without love.

    8.3%
  8. I wish I find one true love in this life.

    36.1%
  9. Love is just a fantasy.

    25.0%
  10. Love is stupid and weird.

    8.3%
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  1. Aquaa

    Aquaa 『Tαҽԋყυɳ'ʂ』『ʍօǟ』 『атїпч』

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    A song by twice


    Jk

    I don't really know what it is? Maybe a yearning to get affection and spend lifetime together with a person (aside from mom dad or siblings or relative) , wanting to care for them and wanting to share everything with them?

    I don't really know about love , I am still very young so i don't bother myself much with love and all , and just go with the flow.

    Not yet maybe someday in future

    I don't really have a opinion about it , they maybe correct about love in their own ways , can't say anything about it unless i experience love .

    Not really i never fell for a character so hard, but in general i do wish to transmigrate or reincarnate in a world of manwha / manga / manuha /novels i have read and experience something like those isekai protagonist experience,will be fun in my opinion and maybe I can find someone there lol.

    :cookie:
     
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  2. Finalbeta

    Finalbeta Bravo Ragazzo

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    There are different shapes of love but only one true meaning, this is what I'm confident about : D ~~~
     
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  3. Jden

    Jden Well-known Dorse

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    1. Love is when I feel comfortable enough have diarrhea around them. (This just sounds wrong no matter what way I word it lol)

    2. I've never loved anyone romantically.

    3. I think they're cute~ and inspiring ig.

    4. Ngl, Claude in who made me a princess is just urgh he's so hot jesus *intense butterflies
     
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  4. Cutter Masterson

    Cutter Masterson Well-Known Super-Soldier

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    1. What is love according to you?
    LOVE is not a simple thing to describe, yet it is that simple. It’s not just immaterial moments. There are also actually moments where they have physically show their love. Love is a dream realized. Love is a warm feeling of contentment. Love is a kiss that make you shiver. Love is in a smile. Love is a person who shares your burdens. Love is understanding, even over perverted taste. Love is kind when you don’t deserve it.
    While love is not perfect. It is worth it.

    2. Have you felt that love towards someone special? And, Was it reciprocated?
    Yes and yes. Thou I had to fight for it. The hard path is usually the best path.

    3. What is your opinion about the quotes above?
    Most of them I agree. Some are a little too abstract. I like the ones that are more personal.

    4. If you don't have anyone in real life, what about the characters in novels, anime or manga? Have you been so crazy in love with a character that you want to be transmigrated to their world or want them to be transmigrated in our world?
    I do have someone and the grass is not always greener on the other side. But there have been a few novels, manga and anime that I wouldn’t mind being the MC in.
    Novels:
    The Man Picked up by the Gods
    Sono Mono Nochi Ni
    Manga:
    ID
    1/2 Prince
    Anime:
    High School Of The Dead
    High School DxD
     
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  5. GDLiZy

    GDLiZy Wise Deepsea Mermaid

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    We are truly the same kind of people. :cookie:
     
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  6. Eternal Liar

    Eternal Liar [Forever Alone Sect Founder]

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    I'm not too sure about love, to be honest, love is subjective and highly controversial. I hear people discussing love all-day long and known many versions of it. Self-sacrifice, understanding, compatibility, reproductive urges, instinct, chemical reactions.

    Putting aside the blase definitions of love that human feel this emotion because of the need for reproduction and continuation of humankind. Love in its ultimate form is basically an extreme representation of affection, consideration and effort.

    If you're a person who's sentimental, love to you is an expression of feelings. Being able to confide in each other, sharing your deepest secrets and confiding in your insecurities.

    If you're an idealistic person, you may find love as being free. No matter the reciprocations you received in return for your love, you believe in the happiness the others as the most important.

    There are many other explanations, but the essence boils down to what is love to you. Love itself is highly subjective due to the fact that its an emotion a concept at the same time. This concept is largely formed by a person's memories, experience, knowledge and understanding. So each person has their understanding of love, and all of them are correct.
     
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  7. Loni4ever

    Loni4ever The Fluffy White Wolf

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    1. What is love according to you?
    Hmmm :hmm: I'm not really sure. A mix of gratitude, affection, appreciation, goodwill, and desire (sexual as well as just wanting to be with them in general) for someone? I can't really say since romantic love doesn't really seem to be my thing, even though I do love experiencing it through characters in stories.

    2. Have you felt that love towards someone special? And, Was it reciprocated?
    If it's just a mix of gratitude, affection, appreciation and goodwill, then yes. The desire part, as in actually wanting to be together with them, not really, no. I kinda feel like it's quite unlikely for me to strongly develop the latter for someone... as a romantic relationship always brings problems of whatever kind with it, and romantic love isn't the only emotion I could feel. So in consideration of the rest of my emotions, I naturally wouldn't develop the need to pursue the romantic love one.

    3. What is your opinion about the quotes above?
    I guess they all kinda have a point? I don't have a whole lot to say about them xD I think the last is my favourite owo

    4. If you don't have anyone in real life, what about the characters in novels, anime or manga? Have you been so crazy in love with a character that you want to be transmigrated to their world or want them to be transmigrated in our world?

    Nope xD I wouldn't wanna experience that voluntarily and I wouldn't want any character to have to experience that either. Some characters just take it in stride but for some, it'd hit them incredibly hard. There's this novel called "The Daybreak", where the MC is transmigrated and it really, really got to her in a way I hadn't seen before.
     
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  8. Lonelycity

    Lonelycity Twice Bitten Thrice Shy

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    Surprising that nobody posted this one....
     
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  9. Ai chan

    Ai chan Queen of Yuri, Devourer of Traps, Thrusted Witch

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    Ai-chan is love, so love Ai-chan.
    Ai-chan is lewd, so lewd Ai-chan.
     
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    Zheya Well-Known Member

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    1. A disease... awaiting a cure.
    2. Don't remind me... Ugh, disgusting! To think I would be infected by such a disease! Curse my youthful days!
    3. Didn't read them, sorry.
    4. No, because if I don't need a person in real life, then I won't in fiction. I rather serve with honor than fall with passion.
     
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  11. Loni4ever

    Loni4ever The Fluffy White Wolf

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    xD
     
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  12. Sabruness

    Sabruness Cultured Yuri Connoisseur

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    *AHEM* *points to post #7 on the first page*
     
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    asriu Well-Known Member

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    love among couple aka lovebird?
    someone who I'm willing to spend rest of my live, albeit that this cat never reach that stage yet~ this know it can cultivated but not interested atm~ on past this cat only on level comfortable to each other with some attraction~
    this cat on core is someone who like solitude live, watching thing around romantic feeling despite know about it but hardly feel it~

    at conclusion what is love among lovebird?
    this cat answer I don't know~
    it type of question which you only know cuz you finally realize it~
    riajuu detected~
     
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  14. Lonelycity

    Lonelycity Twice Bitten Thrice Shy

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    Ahem a masterpiece like this one deserves at least two mentions
    *Cough*
     
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    Cutter Masterson Well-Known Super-Soldier

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    Buddy, you trying to get me killed. Come on don’t be that way.
     
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  16. Irlin-senpai

    Irlin-senpai I ain't got a Clue(-chan)

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    Love is stupid and weird for me. Why are those options not on the poll?
     
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    Nancy2303 Well-Known Member

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    Thank you!:blobsmilehappy: added it.
     
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    Nancy2303 Well-Known Member

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    Wow! Congrats!:blobtaco:
    Really brought smile to my face.:aww:
    My best wishes for you guys!!!:blobsmilehappy:
    Thanks for sharing!~XD

    Cute bun is going to the fantasy realm!:blobtaco:
    Wishing you luck in finding your true love!(y) (have u already reached the realm nd found ur love?):blobpopcorn:

    That's beautiful! ❤ Equivalency! Instead of just one person sacrificing. They both become powerful together.:blobhero: any person u have in mind?
    If yes! My wishes!:blobsmilehappy:
    :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:
    That was funny, but true.
    Well!! Good luck in finding your love!(y)
    And thank you for making me laugh with ur good humor sense.:blobsmilehappy:
     
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    Nancy2303 Well-Known Member

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    First time, hearing this song. My first reaction was what am I watching? Weird feeling.
    My next reaction was, "ohh!*nods* r should i say bopping my head:hmm: anyways,I understood, why you guys posted it here. And also, why @UnGrave was bopping his head to this song. :ROFLMAO:"What is love? Don't hurt me, no more" is ringing in my ears now! That was fun!(y)
    Thanks guys!:blobsmilehappy:
    And a masterpiece indeed!:sweating_profusely:
     
  20. GonZ555

    GonZ555 New bun

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    Beside food, i dont think i found my love yet..
     
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