Discussion What is your biggest turn off in a potential partner?

What is your biggest turn off in a potential partner?

 

Parental disapproval

 

Their three-dimensionality?

 

I’m a sucker for a cute smile.

Biggest turn off. Would probably be that they lie

 

Promiscuity I guess

 

People who reject reality and substitute their own.

 

If they're overly nice,
It seems too fake and reminds me of happy–go–lucky protagonists

 

Optically? A cleft in her chin
Generally? B*tch like attitude. That or one like those xianxia young masters

 

*thinks*
*thinks hard*
*thinks harder*

Uhn... If I already consider someone a potential partner, I honestly have a hard time imagining anything that would turn me off at that point tbh...

If I had to point out anything... Would be that I already dated them and that we already broke up. I wouldn't be going after them to try dating again after we already ended our relationship.

 

It might have to do with being a cancer but.. being treated equally in terms of every aspect. For me, if someone gifts me something I tend to give them something in turn later on. Though it's not possible for everything, but I'd like to be equally relied on/be useful to my counterpart as that person is to me.
So, the biggest turn down would probably be 'disrespect'. I want things to be discussed and both of our ideas to be taken into consideration given the situation and not one-sidedly taken action by the other person (afterall, here the patriarchal society have more power, though over time it has gradually settled down, but there are still those old mentalities in the society which are not easy to uproot.)

 

My biggest turn-off? It's that the other side doesn't like those that I am friends with or my family. That's about it, I guess. Oh, also she needs to not be a criminal, fugitive, or a McDonald's employee... McDonald still hasn't been forgiven by me for forgetting to give me no beef...

 

Hmmm I can’t really think of any currently . I guess just a bad personally in general

 

Dishonesty

 

-Constantly lying.
-Not being trustworthy/after a certain amount of time, not putting trust in me.
-Not putting the same effort into the relationship/treating it like it's already going to end.
-Ungenuine/acts fake.
-Not being able to apologize.
-Continues bad habits.
-Garbage personal hygiene. >_>
-Being named Gavin.

/Last one is a joke

 

Spoiler

 

this isn't that funny so why can't I breathe now

 

• Impatience.
• Manipulative behavior
• Toxicity ...

Also, if they don't support LGBTQIA+ bye.

 

Overly possessive. And pushy.
I'm really sensitive about my space and I know that in a relationship, both parties have to adjust but there's only so much I could give.

On another note, something I really want in a partner is that he could cook well, have a nice low voice and that he smells nice.