What would you do if one day you woke up and...

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What would you do if your gender changed and you need advice on certain biological issues?

  1. Keep it to yourself - don’t tell anyone and rely on the internet

    90 vote(s)
    60.8%
  2. Ask family for advice/support

    35 vote(s)
    23.6%
  3. Ask same gender friends for advice/support

    22 vote(s)
    14.9%
  4. Ask opposite gender friends for advice/support

    18 vote(s)
    12.2%
  5. Go to the doctor/hospital

    52 vote(s)
    35.1%
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  1. ohko

    ohko 【LGBTQ+ association】 【ohko is ohko!】

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    What would you do if one day you woke up and... your d**k disappeared?

    Sorry for the almost-clickbait-like first line, but I’ve been thinking about writing a story, and I was wondering how most normal people would realistically react to the gender bender trope of waking up as the other sex.

    Now, one of my huge pet peeves about male-to-female gender bender is that it’s common for people instantly wake up as beautiful bishoujos with long hair and big boobs. The reason why this bothers me is:
    • Just because you transform into a girl doesn’t mean you’re going to be beautiful. If MC is plain-looking as a guy, he should be plain-looking as a girl.
    • How’d their hair grow so long and so rapidly neatly/perfectly overnight? Even if it grows fast, realistically it’d look like a disheveled bush. It takes effort to get your hair to be nice, and having girl DNA doesn’t intrinsically make your hair pretty.
    • Unrealistic boob sizes..... unrealistic boob sizes.... unrealistic boob sizes.... okay, maybe I’m biased against big boobs, but I can’t stand enormous boobs, especially if the MC is Asian.
    Okay, now you heard my complaints.

    Because of all these reasons, recently I’ve been thinking of a gender-bender novel where the only change MC experiences is that he loses his d*ck (replaced with v*gina), but he retains his male external appearance for now, and the story would be on how he deals with it. Because the change is inside the pants, at first nobody would be able to see.

    The question I have is how you would react if one day you woke up and realized you lost an organ (and it was replaced with something else)?

    It’s completely ridiculous, and you know it’s ridiculous/impossible, but assume that it happened nonetheless and you have to deal with it in addition to your normal everyday life (work, friends, school).

    I don’t really care about what you would do in the short term. I’m more interested in your long-term actions/plans assuming that you were stuck in this situation forever.

    Here’s a series of questions:

    1. Would you contact anyone or share your situation with anyone (to ask for advice)? If yes, who? Your family? Your male friends? Your female friends?

    2. Would you go to the hospital/doctor? What about the next time you have to go for a yearly physical exam?

    3. What do you do the first time you get a period?

    4. What would you do if you slowly started growing boobs?

    5. Would you take medications like testosterone to maintain your male external appearance?

    6. Would this change your life/career plans in any way?

    7. Would this change your social life in any way? Examples: bathroom, locker rooms, swimming pools, etc.

    8. What would you do about relationships/dating? Would your sexual behavior change?

    9. Would you consider living your life as a man or a woman?​

    If you are female and responding to this thread, you can consider all the questions in reverse.
     
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  2. Enigma

    Enigma [Yandere lover][innocent][harem lover]

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  3. H0RR1BL3CPU

    H0RR1BL3CPU [Hotline to Shiroyukineko] [白酒鬼]

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    Whelp if it's modern day, you can quite literally get it back.
     
  4. Tnyhy

    Tnyhy Well-Known Member

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    I just want to ask a few questions to clarify:

    Your gender has changed, but not your sex? Or is actually your sex while your gender stays teh same? Whatever the case you might consider asking this to a trans person and/or forum.
     
  5. ohko

    ohko 【LGBTQ+ association】 【ohko is ohko!】

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    Sorry it’s your sex that changes.

    The gender... it would be the same unless you begin to question your gender identity.
     
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  6. Arcturus

    Arcturus Cat, Hidden Sith Lord

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    Family, doctor and hospital are all valid early people to speak to. Friends? I can only imagine that ending poorly.
     
  7. ohko

    ohko 【LGBTQ+ association】 【ohko is ohko!】

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    Male to female surgery is.... barely passable.

    Female to male surgery isn’t quite there yet. There’s still no good way to reconstruct a d*ck (as of 2018).
     
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  8. DocB

    DocB "I see you, little mouse! Run along"

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    Which of my three dick would disappear? the regular size one, the extra large or the "colossal"?
     
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    Write confession stories for a living (ref - Predestination).
     
  10. Tnyhy

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    You just described an FTM person.

    As for the questions, genderbender has normally a trope in which it plays with the awkwardness of the transformation. Thoss questions are pretty much it.

    First, how to explain what happened to you.
    Then, what if you need help on medical issues... omg
    Periods... enjoy kekekekeke (well, its not like every girl has painful periods, lucky bit... err some bad word, sorry)
    Growing boobs, they hurt and not only when they are growing up.

    Number 5: an FTM would act on that, after all a guy wants to be and look like a guy. (genderqueers need not apply XD)

    Sexual stuff, hmm well I guess some might curious enough to try something with the 'current new equipment' (they might regret it deeply)
     
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  11. KTL

    KTL Down horrendous

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    flick the beans
     
  12. Zaart

    Zaart Deer Master Race

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    First i freak out
    Second i stay some hours in shock
    Third i try to contact a doctor telling him i have a very serious but weird problem
    fourth while waiting for the appointement i look up the internet for what to do but try to live normaly
    Fifth depend on the other changes and what the doctor tell me
     
  13. Jiggy

    Jiggy I am JiggyliFAP~ the not fat anymore guy.

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    1. Call my Dad, let him know he finally got the daughter he was trying or. Plus, he's a doctor as well.
    2. Yeah.
    3. Push a sock against it, and slowly figure it out.
    4. Not a problem, I've already got tits. #Moobs
    5. Nope.
    6. Can't change plans that haven't been made!
    7. My suitemates would be confused, but I don't have a social life.
    8. I may need more than a right hand as a best friend. May masturbate more if it feels better. Or if I can go more than once at a time.
    9. If the masterbation is better, why the fuck not.
    10. But before anything else, gotta masterbate first. That is the most important thing.
     
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    JustSomeLolicon 『God of Lolicons』『Nyx』

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    Wake up again. Works all the time
     
  17. Shem

    Shem ┃ᐕ) ⁾⁾「Lv 69 BL Hunter」☆ Vrelty's Seme ♤♡ ꪋς꧖ ☆

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    This reminds me of a certain manga I've read before XD

    This reminds me of a certain manga I've read before XD
     
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  18. Chiiiiiiiii

    Chiiiiiiiii >Daoist Thirteen Bears< >Hero Astral Saber<

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    My first reaction would be 'am I dreaming? Is this a love com?'
    2º reaction 'Muahahahaha! Good bye aunt! You won't be missed!!' :blobparty:
    3º - look at internet on how to pee :hmm:
    4º (or could be the 3º, meh) - talk to family about the supernatural ocurrence and discuss how to deal with legalities (but if it was a transmigrassion or reincarnation would just skip that, but if I didn't have memories of that body I would claim to be amnesic).
    5º - take care of my body and become a dreamy macho~! :blobhero:
     
  19. Shem

    Shem ┃ᐕ) ⁾⁾「Lv 69 BL Hunter」☆ Vrelty's Seme ♤♡ ꪋς꧖ ☆

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    This reminds me of a certain manga I've read before XD


    If I became a man, I'll be sure to measure my D. Then pursue a man.:blobReach:
    Just because my gender changed doesn't mean I have to change what I like, no?
     
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    What do you mean friends ending poorly?
    "Come on bro, just let us get a go at ya"
     
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