to be honest, it happened 1.5 years ago, but I still can't figure out how I feel. my mind says "girl, you should be happy, what's wrong with you?", but my heart says "I DIDN'T WANT THIS TO HAPPEN LIKE THIS! IT'S JUST BEEN 3.5 YEARS, AT LEAST WAIT UNTIL IT'S 5 YEARS! I JUST STARTED TO GET USED TO IT AS WELL.". I have no right to blame them either since they got married for financial reasons. I'm disabled, so my mother has to take care of me, that's why she can't have a work. I really missed the days they were divorced... me and my father would spend time together once a week, but now... since we see each other everyday, we don't really miss each other. so, what would ( or did ) you feel if this happen to you? note: I was devastated when they got divorced. another note: thankfully, I'm much better now, since I got used to it.