I Know all of them arent taken, but most were. Its probably justthat im down on luck. This year hasnt been so well for me lol.
In first place i think you should ask yourself what do you seek. Do you want someone only to not be single? Do you want to share your hobbies with someone? Sometimes you just want a good friend rather than a girlfriend. From your description you seem content with yourself, this is only my opinion but... is it really worth the trouble? I don't see any problem in being a late bloomer, just do what you want and be happy.
I think your need to put more effort into being more confident. Also you need to get out there. Join a group that are into the same thing you are.
fate is cruel, its been a while since i'm being a neet. well back to topic... it can't be helped, blame this world, for even asking for requirement just to become double instead of being single. really envious of the people of the past, when technology didn't exist, and people didn't had to worry about how to live.
I am content. It is my first thread and i wanted some advice about going round doing this. Im not desperate, altbough people may misinterpret the tone of the title.
Damn, then I'll unleash my google skills and look up the picture (though I'm 90% sure I won't find it. As a lover of cuteness I approve your choice in avi.
Maybe because you have too much demand when you're looking for a lover. From the way you talking about yourself, you obviously think "I am pretty good" so I guess you you want someone that "pretty good" for your standard too.
When looking for someone to date, 'proximity' is something that is oft overlooked. You are more likely to date someone you have a lot of classes with, or someone at your favorite restaurant, or a work colleague, as they're use to you, they see your habits, and more than likely are friendlier to you than some stranger you've spoken with once or twice. Pick up a hobby that gets you out and about with people. Even if it doesn't specifically lead to a date, the act of socializing helps grow your own confidence around interacting with others. Lastly, sometimes life sucks. I asked three women I thought I had a chance with out on a date a couple weeks apart from each other. The first laughed, the second said Ew, and the third changed the subject so fast I got whiplash. I called off dating, and then sometime later a beauty actually asked me out. There is definitely luck involved, but there's no harm in making your own luck.
You have to fix it yourself, must be pro-active about this. Unless you are sent a soulmate by chance. GReat example.
Best recommendation I can give you is to stop jacking off. No, seriously. If as you say you aren`t that bad, what you need is the drive to go after woman so as to fulfill your basic sexual necessity as a man. Having said drive will give you the motivation to put effort into starting a relationship and to constantly want to look for women. The problem in jacking off is that it will inmerse you in a state of fake conformity. This state is such that even if you want to be in a relationship, having one wont`t feel as necesary for you, more so if you have enough hobbies to occupy your time (NU).
this is really the problem of earth today damn zuckerberg if he didnt create a source of info for everyone no one is prejudice and prideful because they know it all well much of it come from fb wrong info's even kids today cheeky as fck and i much like u I envy the past not like now where people as happy go lucky as good as everyone else and i hope some god well destroy this earth for good cuz hes creations are being cancer