Discussion Why is it so hard to kiss?

KISS in here ain't lip kiss U KNOW, It's apter to say, more like mouthing others mouth, and so the mouth could normally be used as a gate of the air toward lung, and the excitement also decrease the degree of inhaling air via the nose, so the Breathing Problems occurs, OC it's not asthma anyway

 

I'm pretty sure that's a normal first kiss for most people

 

Beer isn't as cheap as a bad pick up line

 

You aren't wrong

 

I dislike these disgusting descriptions of tongue to tongue in some of the Chinese novels, i just find tongueing each other gross. Have you seen any JAV where they try that BS? It looks straight out of crazyland.

 

I think the trope is that they pass out from being overwhelmed/excited/embarrassed/blood rushing to the head/blood pressure rising, not from not knowing how to kiss...

 

But why is this the specific thing that is the trope? Why not something else? It just slightly miffs me

 

Yeah and I'm blowing bubbles as a pranks.

 

Kiss is so gross and disgusting, never have I kiss my little nephew on his cheek. I hug and hold his hand but I don't kiss cause I don't like kiss. Mouth on mouth is more disgusting and gross. Do you know how much I feel disgusting watching movie where protagoinst kiss love interests. So I skip kissing part. Why are people obsessive with kissing. I honesty think kiss on cheek is so cute and adorable but on mouth is so disgusting.

 

I've only seen this when the author is trying to have an innocent "white rabbit" type of MC. If you have a badass MC, you'll hardly see this kissing trope there. Also, for the head tilting. One should be the more aggressive one and kind of gently hold the back of the other person's head, then tilt the head of the partner whichever direction. That's how you can avoid bumping. Usually, it's the guy doing this, cause we live in a society. Anyway, I find the guys who take charge this way hotter and more dependable.

 

This.Was just about to comment this, albeit with different wording but i guess there's no need now.

 

The mouth is sensitive, tender, and moist. This makes the sensation particularly pleasurable. Kissing a family member like a nephew is different. Kissing the cheek is to express feelings, but not to feel the type of pleasure that comes from kissing on the mouth. For that you need a consenting partner (one you are preferably not related to) for that.

It’s not unusual to find kissing gross, the desire to do such things usually appears after you start to have special feelings like romantic love or sexual attraction. It fulfills a need for companionship. I’m not sure how old you are, but the process of making children is way more gross than just kissing on the mouth. I recommend continuing to think of it as gross for as long as possible. It’s easier to get things accomplished in life without getting distracted by thoughts of kissing or of a crush.

 

Well this is a rare sight to see

 

Some people are just wired differently I suppose

 

I think it depends entirely on the quality of the kiss.

Romantic scenes tend to feature quite technical kisses.

 

...like what?

Instruction manuals written by those who aint kissed before?

*is confused*

 

Am I just reading the wrong romances? Because most kiss scenes are either very short, or overly idiotic. Where are the technical romantic kisses?

 

probably seen in a western novels or eroticas, they flush out even the environment when kissing

 

This

 

Would not be surprised if the rise of the #MeToo movement had some influence!