I can't actually think of any traps which i've personally seen so far, so I can't give a good answer that would be realistic.
I'm not sure there is an appropriate answer, since I'm suspicious by nature until I see an original birth certificate I will assume they are all traps now
I won't ever, however I witness my "friend" who fall in love to a trap. It was obvious the trap was male by how he acts. One of the best laughs when mentioned in get togethers.
I've been wondering about this for a while but what's the title of that anime? And no. I' wont be dragged there. Probably.... hopefully.
In real life, I'm 95% sure I won't. The last 5% is what I think could be the possibility of finding a real trap that's on the level of fiction's traps, which I believe is near impossible. If it's fiction, I'm 100% sure that if they are cute enough, I will get pulled to the other side.