you should give Hitori no Shita - The Outcast a try. instead of normally super beautiful, super graceful xianxia female lead, this one's an apathetic, sloppy, messy heroine. but still strong as hell though. actually, i think he means blonde
Gonna check those out. Btw what is the name of the manga in your profile pic. I used to read it back in the day, but stopped, i think the guys name was thor or something similar, and he became a slave for awhile.