@Glaurung Not to undermine the situation, but he gives his WISHES!
FFS, you straight up tell her to get drugs to help her brother...
He gives help on how to solve the problem, and you just say "Fuck it, trying to communicate is a lost cause... Helping is for pussies."
lol. you said something like- if i was there- i'd talk to your parents and all will be fine?!? it means her problem is nothing compared to your greatness.
what you think he said:
- if i was there- i'd talk to your parents and all will be fine?!? it means her problem is nothing compared to your greatness.
He didn't even remotely say that...
and here is what HE said:
"I have literally barged into my friends homes and lectured their parents on parenting. Anyone that is willing to talk will listen to me and give in. And I really wish I could do the same with your's."
@Glaurung read the sentences before that too, butchering my post to suit your means huh?
Yet you remain silent about your recommendation of drugs? All I was implying was that a good communication was needed the most in these kinds of situations, and you say straight out drugs are what are needed?
If I have issues according to your standards, if those standards are applied to you, what will you be then?
Oh my god @Glaurung ...
Tell me seriously, don't try to hide it... do you have mental problems?
He says, he has been successful in helping others, and he has confidence in his words.
He never undermines her problem, not even once.
Godlike arrogance is yours, where you say drugs will fix everything.
*Clap* *Clap*
"i told her to be wary. you told her the problem was shallow."
When? Tell me when, and I stop right now and even start supporting you.
"i advised caution- you advised complacency."
When did he exactly advised "complacency"?
let me see, here, post the links to where you think he said that.
She has been talking on the phone since her brother is staying with a friend until he can move out. By your say giving drugs is caution and talking is complacency.
Where did I ever say I can fix someone's parents. I said that I could talk and if others are willing to listen, my words have an impact.
You still remain silent about your caution, I mean psychotic drugs are very cautious, and communication especially a good one is very complacent. Especially when the brother isn't even in the house and they are to talk on the phone.
So recommending someone psychotic drugs when he is not even diagnosed and away from the house planning to move out from there, which means he is not a threat, is caution and funny?
And if I say to her listen to your brother's point too, even if you disagree, which she says she has contact over phone, and have good communication is complacent?
lol. now you downgrade your absolutes... maybe a hint of humility... nah still arrogant.
she wanted solutions- i gave her the fastest one. she gave a big problem, and in line with that i gave the fastest solution. not the best one- but the fastest one.
Oh, before I forget.
A serious punch from a normal human male, against an unprepared one can cause internal bleeding (that's how Houdini died).
Even say she was prepared to receive the punch. Had the kid punched seriously, it could still send her to the hospital.
thats cause i was unprepared. He said his punch! was as light as a tap.
ask if he really wanted to hit his mother, or if he was forced to. His parents often use hitting as a source of discipline, you can't even say it's his fault, and even the girl @vsukio admited, he is never the one who hits first.
My God. So the fastest solution could be ...death... If someone had Tumor?
You say her brother shows signs of sociopathy? Are you a certified doctor or just someone bullshitting from reading somethng on the interneti
I say all of this, because the hitting his mother was the greatest thing you could find to support medication use, and say He's undermining the situation, while it's been disproven a lot of times.
To me that situation should have been handled before it escalated to that point.
It's bad parenting, and the kid's bad handling of the situation.
You simply blame the kid and tell him to get medication.
i recommended therapy- and with it drugs. the deep-seated hatred would only boil inside her brother. worse case scenario is she or her sister gets harmed.
Yeah I read how you wrote therapy. You used the word therapy only twice in that gigantic post of yours, and the first time you said ...advice is take therapy with drugs... Second time you said...more drugs than therapy...
And you started your post by saying ...good be the man drugs, he is psychotic...
Now we're getting somewhere... @Glaurung
THIS suggestion isn't actually all that bad, since he feels drained inside the house, something must be happening.
But your original suggestion where you said @Tramsloof is arrogant doesn't stand.
I was talking about the therapy method you suggested.
To be honest, it isn't that bad.
Though, if you want, you might wanna rephrase it, and drugs as you say is going too far.
You say you know something about phycology? Prove it.
seriously? i am so great a talk with me will change you?
he never said that, and you're making it up.
OVER! FINITO!
He wasn't being arrogant, and your suggestion has some valid points, albeit going a bit too far when mentioning medication.
You can't prove he is arrogant...
And I admit, @Glaurung yes, you were acting arrogantly.
Who was more arrogant should be obvious when it's 1000 versus 1
Please prove it. I want you to quote the words I said and tell me where I said '1 talk' or 'fix parents' 'magic bullet'. Show me even one of those words.
@ trans i didn't miss the sentence. that sentence was what made the post so bad. that sentence made you a saviour that can magically make haer parents give in to your will.
again... leave defeated and shamed.
a little humility next time.
for one thing- i was willing to talk- you didn't change anything- so maybe not anyone?
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