Ok so this incident began about 2 weeks ago when this girl began to approach me at the end of class. She would try to strike up small talks with me about every other day. As someone who is a part of this community, I, naturally, have no idea how to talk to girls. I would just answer her questions straightforwardly and leave an awkward silence. A little bit about myself to make sense of why she is not turned down by this- I would try to keep the most serious face possible whenever I'm in class so that the teacher thinks I'm totally paying attention to the class even though I'm not at all. I've been using this technique for about 2 years now so I would have a serious expression on even though I'm not trying to so I give off the vibe of "serious, studious, young man" to everyone other than my group of friends. With that bit done, she continued to make small talks with me at the end of class which is very awkward because of my level of social skills until this Friday. A friend of mine who I fuck around with all the times and have never seen a serious side of me saw her trying to talk to me and my reaction of complete seriousness. After breaking away from her, this close friend of mine went up to her and said "He thinks you're weird" in which she reacts by running after me and telling me "[Insert my name]x2, I'm not weird ok? *whisper* I just want to be closer to you" W H A T O N E A R T H D O E S T H I S M E A N ? ? ? ? ? That was my internal reaction by the way. She was already gone before I was able to respond. I've been pondering for some times today but still can't figure it out. Does she want to be my friend? Is she fucking with me? Is she interested in me? Please send help. P.S. She's a solid 7/10. I'm not trying to get rid of her
I, Daoist Shifu has advice! Treat them normally It's not as if women have shark teeth and razor-sharp swords laying around!
Hey I'm not a absolute part of this community but if that girl is always talking to you ( or pestering you) then just be manly! Talk to her maybe she wants you to be a friend? Or you have a mysterious vibe that we girls really like.... Goodluck!!
._. i dont know how serious you are but there's 2 options. 1. Either she is fkn with u or 2. She is interested in you Depending on your social interactions or let's say your standing in class, it might be either of the 2 but I'll lean on 2 more. Just reply to her and be comfortable when talking.
If you lile her ask her out, if you delay you will eventually be put to the friendzone But try asking her intenstion 1st, like what kind of close does she mean, if she says friend then tell her that you want to be more than that, if she tells you its a romamtic type close then ask her out, if she tells you like best friend even though you said more than friends then you're screwed
Sounds like she's 14 maybe 15 years old. She's probably built you up in her own mind. My advice is to strike quickly and make a good impression on her. Ask her out to do something fun and then find out what kind of things she likes to do.
Try coming out clean with it. If what particular about you is okay with her and you don't repulse her, what's the harm of making a new "relationship". P.S: relationship is made vague in relation to what level of closeness you want to be with the girl
agree with canaria23. Ask her out sometime. Worse that happens she stops talking to you and you can actually become a studious student instead of acting. Best case you lose your (i'm assuming with no judgement or criticism) virginity.