Are you the kind of person that easily bore/bear grudges or hate someone who offended you?

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Xieljhane

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Me? "..... "
Yes... "....."

I don't know why but, I really can't forget it easily even though it is year ago a month,, when I remember it I can still feel the hate even if it's just a little thing that make me hate that person... "......."

My bad,, "......"
I think my heart is not that strong "="
"........"

#noharshcomment
Iwillhateyou "....." Lols.... D)

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    1. doomeye1337 Nov 7, 2017
      I grudge when the offender shows no sign of repentance, reluctance, or regret. Treating slighting others as air earns a lifetime grudgin'. I don't mind ignorance as much, depending on the subject. It's usually people doing small slights as if it's completely fine and normal that end up bugging me the most.
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    2. Thousandswords Nov 7, 2017
      I have a mental " Revenge Diary" where I keep records of the faces I am going to harm if I get a chance in the future.
      I am not going to deliberately harm them, but I am not going to miss a chance when If I get one
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    3. Eve Nov 7, 2017
      Yes, and even when I found out that its just a misunderstanding or I was in the wrong after all, the initial hate just latch onto me like a good cement that dries like a super glue.
      It makes evrything hard and awkward but I don't particularly hate it.
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    4. DollHead Nov 7, 2017
      Wow lucky for me it actually the exact opposite when ever someone do something against me I just forget it even tho I want to remember it and then I will get stabbed in the back over and over
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    5. Xieljhane Nov 7, 2017
      @Katsono ,, yeah your right but it's just not that simple for me....

      Because when I saw that person, it all came back (i mean I remember all the bad things that happened)
      like a nightmare that haunted you every night"....."

      I really don't understand I'm the kind of person that easily forgot many things but if it's bad I can't easily shake it off..

      I'm weird right? "...."

      Thanks for your wonderful advice.. "....))
      I'll try harder now,,
      .....
    6. Xieljhane Nov 7, 2017
      @Katsono
      Yeah what you said is right I'm to self conscious, I don't express much my self,,
      Like something I don't like happened, but I still pretend that it's ok but deep inside I'm fuming,,

      It's like smiling outside but
      Glaring dagger inside...

      Ahhh... Thanks a lot..
      ....that helps me... :)
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    7. Tramsloof Nov 8, 2017
      I am indifferent towards people most of the times when they manage to offend me somehow.

      But mentally I assign them a number in red, the greater it is, the more they left a bad impression.

      Why I assign these numbers is, because of my indifferent nature I forget faces, names and even the offending things people did. I may be willing to forgive, but I don't believe in forgetting.

      So when, and if I see these people in future, those numbers will come to me. I may not remember what they did to piss me off in past, or even who the hell they are, but I remember very well just how well they managed to offend me.
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    8. Skullie Nov 10, 2017
      I wish I can be mad at someone for a long time
      Q.Q
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