@Raizendeville But seriously, does it matter that she wanted money? Why care? Wouldn't it be more important to think what you wanted? - maybe not at first? But if time goes by, I think it'll be shitty to feel one is not wanted for one's self. Unless one enjoys inflicted emotional pain if you strive and both of you got together then that would give you an ample of time to slowly change her feelings from just being interested in your money to finally being interested in you, right? - possible. But if both are putting effort. But I'm more doubtful. Why? One committed due to money seeking. That should really sum it up
hmm if da women not force men to seek after money sometime men are lazy~ hey family man is treasure you know~ that da positive side as for negative side well gold digger~
@Tramsloof Yeah it really is sad. As wide as the world is there are tons who exist like this, but really women who chase after bulging pockets are creature I find hard to understand, why keep chasing something that won't last long, I mean money can be spend until it's gone but what of it? Was there amass satisfaction at the end? Aye~~
@Raizendeville I thought we were talking about women and money, and that it was alright for them marry for money, that is why I had no comments on men who were players. Again, hate is a strong word, but deception of any kind is looked down at by me. What do I think when someone leaves you when they get from you what they wanted or they find someone better? The above is what happens when you deal with gold diggers. Since the topic involves them, I only say about them and maybe that shows I hate them, I don't, I just look down on them. So the question is actually the defination of a new kind of relationship, it is like a transaction. You get a girlfriend for money, when the money goes so does the girlfriend. Maybe the girlfriend has a better deal offered, she goes towards the better deal. So its fair in a sense, if everything is out in the open, even then looked down upon. Unfortunetly no one even cares about the crap they spout at the time of marraige, eternity is at max twenty years. That my friend is, sad.
@Tramsloof well yeah I get the gist of that but not all are like that though.... Just like how there are women who are Gold Diggers, there are also men who are Players. Between these two I don't know which one to dislike more, but how about you? What do you think about someone who leaves you once they get what they want or find someone better?
@Raizendeville despise them? That is too strong a word. I don't like them for sure. I mean stay with me here, so men are attracted by women's looks at first. And that is frowned upon, and used as an excuse to justify that if women want to marry men for money, what is wrong in it? Actually, everything is wrong in it. Do you think beauty is everything for men? I mean, yes looks matter and work as a force of attraction in the start but that is all the role it has to play. Because women grow old and looks go away, so should men not leave the old women and marry new ones who look better? So my point is, looks only matter at the start, after that you love the person herself. So if looks matter only at start, maybe money matters only at start too for women? Unforntunelty, that is not how it works. When those rich guys go bankrupt, their wives go poof, meaning, in search for the next group of rich guys. Or they have a divorce if the husband is not dying. My point is, women can be attracted to men by money at first, but it should be a very minor factor and not everything. Maybe she likes my car and clothes. That is alright, but it shouldnt mean she is with me just for those, many people have those, I need her to love me for something only I have. My personality and character.
@Tramsloof , you got a point Do you despise them then? The Gold diggers I mean? Just yesterday I also chance upon a question, Do guys only after the looks and chastity?
@Raizendeville you are far too innocent. They arent called 'gold diggers' for nothing. There was an excellent joke about this, The thing is, these women are vicious to get what they want. They will file for a divorce and accuse falsely, write books if their husband is famous, appear on tv and just about anything to earn another penny. As a result of above, men are finally getting smarter about their money. Now the old billionaires have their young to be wives sign contravts before marraying them, which limits them in many ways. So I have money, its natural that I am wearing clothes that people in my circle wear, and I will appear rich. Does that mean I have to depend on this to court women? If women find security in this, what is my need? I am just a donkey, working left and right to provide them with gold that can give them their security. Marry gold then, you have to work for it then, as you do when you are bound by contracts. There is something simple, you love him, and she loves you, why care about the money? If you are afraid about the future and call it quits, what was your love to begin with? But when you do love each other, you belong to each other, and when you belong to each other, what to say about the little things you possess. Love is the love I talk about, marraige is not the marriage we see. This is our world, and it is better to be cautious when dealing with gold diggers.