Mah Feelz - By Parth37955

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Ugh. <==that's what I'm feeling right now. Lemme rant a little, kay?

So...as rather few of you know, the staff here makes $0 for the work we put in for maintaining NU/NUF. We are mods because we genuinely like this place. Now I've had rough history here on NUF. Been involved in a lot of drama. Even had a Parth sucks thread made about me and my profile page tarnished multiple times. One time, I think I fell into depression for a week or so, because every time I would go online, I would feel like there was like bags of sand in my lungs...Anyways, I got better, crustier I guess. I get annoyed easily, but there are very few things that truly infuriate me.

Any assault on the integrity of me or the staff here. As I've been here for almost 2 years, I have gotten to know my coworker fairly well. They are some of the best human beings I've had the pleasure of knowing. However, ever since this bullshit drama popped up between Qidian and Wuxiaworld, a vocal minority of the community has began to suspect us of siding with Qidian or having ulterior motives behind not banning Qidian and Wuxiaworld outright. Now most people (with a brain) can see we are doing neither. We're not getting into that gutter fight. We have done what we can on the NU front, and on NUF, we've always allowed debate and discussion about matter important about the community. If we were paid off by Qidian on Wuxiaworld, we'd be censoring threads, deleting posts, which we haven't done unless if the post was like, "Fuck your grandmother" or something.

Anyways, I know most people either don't care or probably don't think we're on the dark side, but...it still hurts when I've been working and investing my time into this community for free, and in return I have to deal with this garbage on a regular basis.

Sigh, I needed to vent a little.

Comments

    1. doomeye1337 Aug 1, 2017
      @Parth37955 now you know how it feels being a minor celebrity :p It's a psychological phenomenon where the % of hate matters less to you than the number. Even if you read 9900 posts praising and loving you, if 100 posts are crapping on you, then you feel like shit. On the other hand, if 9 posts are praising you but 1 post is crapping on you, you more easily shrug it off.

      Just think about how most of those crapping posts are new/trash accounts and remember how the core of NUF have stuck all the way through and feel the love :p
      Hahhaa, Trent and runsing like this.
    2. Osamaru Aug 1, 2017
      \( ̄▽ ̄)/ Fight On! \( ̄▽ ̄)/
    3. Jeebus Aug 1, 2017
      I think NU can remain neutral while also asking WW and QI to leave the drama elsewhere. If users wish to discuss matters, that's on them, and I don't think NU needs to get involved. On the other hand, if you look at the threads with the most drama and vitriol, the OP is almost always WW or QI. NU doesn't need to be the soapbox for WW and QI to go tit-for-tat and instigate more drama on the forum. It's not like NU is the only place where they can post. They can use Twitter, Facebook, Reddit, smoke signals, or skywriting.
    4. Wiger98 Aug 1, 2017
      Take it easy Parth, the NU team has done good on staying as a neutral party as the moment you choose a side NU basically becomes something that you guys never wanted it to be. So in the end take a break from this every now and then and rock on with the sh**s and giggles posts XD.
      Alixiron likes this.
    5. LaDyViL Aug 1, 2017
    6. Shio Aug 1, 2017
      Don't worry and just feel the blob :cookie:
      You did a good job. Retire and let west become the new hitting target :blobowoevil:
      Hahhaa and Alixiron like this.
    7. LaDyViL Aug 1, 2017
      Bad @Shio !!!!!
      No retirement for my scapegoat!!
      I need someone to be blamed when I go Evil-staff mode.
    8. MEGA SPARTA CHICKEN Aug 1, 2017
      I love you somewhat a little maybe a lot? jk Parth I would love if you (NU) crushed Qi but I don't really care that you (NU) are staying neutral it's your (NU) choice after all everything beside the legal battle is just a bunch of bullshit.
      Hahhaa likes this.