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northerner

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My mom and relatives are urging me or always asking me whether I have a boyfriend or suitor. It's annoying. I already told them that I don't wanna get married. They kept saying I'm too young to say that. I've been telling them I don't want to get married since I was 16? I'm 21 now but no change. Do they even know I'm so confused? I don't know if I'm actually capable of love or affection. I don't feel anything. Yes I can be sad, happy, mad but those never stayed once I'm alone. I can sympathize and empathize but that doesn't also stay. My feelings disappears after I stopped thinking about it. I just feel hollow. There's nothing inside. Once you're gone, then I won't wallow in pain. I'll forget about you.

I do feel like I want to be in a relationship but no further relationship like marriage. And that's bad. I don't want kids. They're cute but I don't like taking care of them.

I wanna live alone. Just have my own savings, house and live peacefully. Stop with the relationship talks.

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    1. northerner Sep 1, 2021
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    2. Cutter Masterson Aug 31, 2021
      @northerner I’m sorry about your aunt. I’m also glad things are working out in your favor. If you ever need to vent. I’m always here
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    3. northerner Aug 31, 2021
      @Cutter Masterson funny lmao. im avoiding them for now. fortunately, classes are about to resume soon. my aunt's funeral will end in a week. that means I'm not seeing them anytime soon.
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    4. Cutter Masterson Aug 30, 2021
      Hey, @northerner . I do recommend what I said is the best solution, but if you need any help. I could pull the fake boyfriend card. Lol. Just be warn. I do have a special someone. So no falling in love with me (like that could ever happen. Lol).
    5. northerner Aug 30, 2021
      @Cutter Masterson that's a good advice. Thank you! It's annoying to always get asked. Recommendations aren't nice. It's gonna be surprise if I really do fall in love, lmao.
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    6. Cutter Masterson Aug 29, 2021
      @northerner Sounds like your indifferent. Which isn’t to bad. Your contented with your life. As to finding love. I believe the best is not to go looking for it. Live your life as you see it. Usually people with similar taste will gravitate to you. That’s when you’ll find the one. As to your family. I’d say something like “I’m looking”. Which is true, but it would be more like it would be nice if I bump into him. As to them assisting. I’d say no. I appreciate the help, but I am happy with the plan I have. Thank you thou. Than smile and move along. At least that’s what I would do. I wish you luck
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