Recently I started browsing another community that is not NUF... It's something I haven't done in ages, and it's a community I never bothered to get engaged with... I'm still pretty unfamiliar with how to walk around on that place and I don't quite get how it works, so I basically look at the most recent topics and reply when something catches my eye... Overall, it's a way way tamer connection that I have than what I have with NUF, but... At the same time it is a nice one because it's a completely different community that focuses on other things than NUF does, and I can talk about some things there that I can't talk on NUF because nobody knows me there, so I have the freedom of anonimity to act in whatever way I want... This has its certain appeal, but it's not quite the same as the appeal NUF has, rather, it's a complete different appeal.
Today in on of the topics that caught my attention, there was someone ranting about a specific aspect of that community... I guess there is drama everywhere, even without Qidian~ *giggles*
Essentially, what the rant was about that a certain thing that was claimed by that community belonged to another community and that they were looking down on a serious issue of the other community by doing this kind of thing and that they could by no means do that sort of claim as what this community went through couldn't even equate to what the other community went through.
... In all honesty, pretty much everything above is true. That community has it a lot easier than what the other community goes through, which led to, unsurprisingly, to a lot of people showing support to the OP on their claims, because they actually had quite a bit of merit.
However... That's messed up. Like, really, crazily messed up. What essentially happened was that they were borrowing a term that has been used since who knows how long with a specific connotation in mind, and the other community took that term as their own and solidified its main usage as something that belongs to them... That's all fine and dandy, but you have no right in simply saying that other people can't go and also claim that term as their own with a different connotation than the one you use.
What it looked like was someone saying that their life is horrible and that other people had no idea how many hardships they went through, so they had no right to claim the term of that oh so terrified and oppressed community... I do realize the other community has a lot of troubles and I totally think they have all the right to try and fight for their rights, but by no means that gives them the right of looking down on the fights of other communities, nor do they have the right of claiming the vocabulary used by others as theirs, just because they claimed it first.
I realize I'm being super vague about it, but I don't particularly want to expose any details of the occurrence, so... Let's just go with an analogy. It's kinda like when your mom sees you leaving food in the plate (as a child) and says that you shouldn't do that because there are children starving in Africa! So we cannot waste food... Like... Hello? The African children wouldn't get this food anyway, it has nothing to do with them, just because they are starving to death, it doesn't mean I need to keep eating when I'm already super full.
It's this sort of feeling that I had... That someone had a big trouble and felt entitled to look down on everyone else's troubles... I get that their trouble is big, but just because my trouble is smaller, it doesn't stop being an issue anyway, it's a really entitled line of thought to think that your big trouble makes everyone else's trouble something that isn't really a bother... Since when this became a competition of who is worse off? Because in that case we should just stop all society's fights and go help the war refugees and the people that are starving, because nobody else is in bigger trouble than them.
Honestly, it felt like such a bother to read through that... It felt especially bothering how all members that were part of both communities ended up just defending the claims of the OP simply because they could relate to the problems of the OP better... I felt glad that the people of the community in question did defend themselves properly and calmly though, they did a good job, I would have been way less polite than they were~ *giggles*
Overall, it's just a small issue that concerns a bunch of people that I'm not close to in the slightest, but it still bothered me, so I figured I would rant about it a bit~
Troubles, Bigger Troubles and Entitled People
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