Forgotten Title Chinese novel set in ancient times with MC memory loss tied to husband's attempted assassitnation

There was this chinese novel I was reading where the girl lost her memory after drowning, but doesn't know who exactly drowned her. She wakes up in her home (her husband's house) and the household doesn't really like her and treats her unkindly, and she doesn't know better because she doesn't know who she is.

She ends up meeting her husband at the marketplace or something, and they end up eating together but she doesn't know that he's her husband. She begins to try to figure out what happened but then when she tries to get stuff out of her maid, the maid ends up dead/disappearing.

I think she ends up writing down notes to herself, and there was a plot with an assassin trying to kill her husband and somehow she had the same bracelet or something her husband's assassin had.

 

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Thank you!!