Don't you ever think sometimes you are curse?

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  1. cap.toon

    cap.toon Well-Known Member

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    Don't you think something you're curse? Especially, when one bad things or major stressful changes happen one after another within a short duration of time.

    I have a series of events that I deem negative happening since January. They are not all quite resolve yet, however, they are taxing my finance and emotions to the max. It is easy to fall into negative thinking, like the world is out to get you--but sometimes, I feel like I'm jinx.
     
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    reagents 11 disaster personified

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    Cursed you mean ?
     
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    otaku31 Well-Known Member

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    cursed. Same for the title.
    jinxed.

    Plz correct. Otherwise, it takes on an entirely different (read: unpleasant) meaning, esp. regarding ur thoughts on what others may possibly feel about u.
     
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    I wouldn't say cursed but lots of bad luck and when I feel down, I read lots of novels or watch anime or some movie for a change of mood
     
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    reagents 11 disaster personified

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    Or do you feel yourself as hindrances, bother, dead weight, sore of your family or closed ones ? If yes that's just mild depression kicks in. None really orders to be born anyway nor they could choose their families or circumstances of their upbringing.
     
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    If you feel your are cursed, and have many unexplained jinxes that further your speculation that you are indeed cursed. It's best to counter curse by being super positive or you can rely on the supernatural. Though I don't know what supernatural method is effective in counteracting negative karma or luck.

    I tend to put things of different elements in different positions in the house. I apply Feng Shui and blessed crosses. I also follow my own arcane, which was an old practiced magic/belief system of converging unknown crafted symbols with supernatural power. Basically, the less it is understood by conventional reasoning, but fully believed in what it can do, and not why; said arcane will work in wonders. The problem is, I can't tell if it's working or not, but I still commit myself in fueling my arcane. Perhaps it's working now or not, who knows?
     
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  7. Walter vi Britannia

    Walter vi Britannia Well-Known Member

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    Take a moment to let out all the tension from your body.
    Drop your shoulders, unclench your hands and jaws. Take a deep breath. Feeling better?
     
  8. Miserys_End

    Miserys_End 「Lv1 Pretend Person」I'm the preson i pretend to be

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    I'm both, a curse to those around me and cursed to live this mediocre life of misery.
     
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  9. prongsjiisan

    prongsjiisan Apostle of Violence

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    Never... Did you live in country that have 4 seasons? Then that was normal, especially in winter, just focus to fix your problem. And you'll be fine.
     
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    Nope, I'm a blessing :blobok:
     
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    Grenore 《Member》

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    Cursed.
    Mines even worse, it has been already over 10+ years and it has always been with me.
     
  12. cap.toon

    cap.toon Well-Known Member

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    :LOL:
    :whistle: IDK.
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    I'm just joking. I don't tend to check grammar when it is forum posting. I'll work on it, but consume too much time. :unsure:

    Yup, meditation and deep breathing would be a good alternative. I am looking for this amazing piece of guided speech video on Youtube about letting go of the day's stress. But I can't tend to find it anywhere on Youtube, so I'm just waiting for it to pop up on its own. The world has strange ways of getting things to me. When I had forgotten that I was searching for something, I suddenly found or saw it elsewhere.
     
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    I think I can say with some level of certainty that I'm not a curse. I'd like to think that I'm a human being.
     
  14. Walter vi Britannia

    Walter vi Britannia Well-Known Member

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    You'll get through this. I believe in you. Hey, you should read a good funny completed novel. That should get you up.
    Or spend time with your pet if you have one. My cats, even if they ignore me, gets me all the time up just because of their innocence and how they live life with no worry in the world.
     
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    Nope. At least not that high regarding my family. It is actually a series of events that happened within a short duration of time. Like, just making it up: on New year's day someone crash into my car in which the case has not been solved yet; two weeks later, I tripped on air and sprained my ankle; a month later, I went from a full-time worker to a part-timer; and a month later, my new landowner courtesy asked me to leave my apartment. It is not depression, but one can get depression from many changes in a short duration of time.
    What's yours?
     
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    cap.toon Well-Known Member

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    My mom hates cat, cultural stuff. On the other hand, I can't afford any pets.
     
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    My whole life has been cursed.
     
  18. Varno

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    Try Alan Watts. You can probably meditate to his life expondings.
     
  19. Walter vi Britannia

    Walter vi Britannia Well-Known Member

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    That's not the end of the world. Try other things. There's lots of good things out there. Don't let a series of unfortunate events get you down. Look at it this way, this is a pretty good story to tell; the time when you felt like a gray cloud was hanging over your head.
     
  20. UnGrave

    UnGrave ななひ~^^

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    The only curse I have is my good looks (lol).