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  1. 911

    911 [Officer][Official Police][Tag me when needed]

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    ¬_¬) woah. I think can join the fun
     
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    @911 has a love interest?! Is it @FBI or @Police Officer? Or maybe it's 112...
     
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  3. listener

    listener Tony's Friend

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    feel free....
    I will always be here, to give some advice
    :blobokhand::blobokhand::blobokhand::blobokhand:
     
  4. listener

    listener Tony's Friend

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  5. HNCKrstl

    HNCKrstl 《The Đevîl's Cøñsørt》

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    Do you have qualifications to do this..? :LOL::ROFLMAO:

    Or being a heavy reader is good enough..? :blobthinkingsmirk::blobthinkingsmirk:
     
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  6. listener

    listener Tony's Friend

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    i already got @Nom de Plume 's Approval .
    You can ask her about my amazing advice of her love problems
     
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  7. HNCKrstl

    HNCKrstl 《The Đevîl's Cøñsørt》

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    Oh..It's fine then I guess.. :cookie:

    I'll ask you something then..

    Is it possible for two people with completely different tastes in what they like and enjoy, live together happily, without compromising the things they like...?
     
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    Nope. Compromise is an essential part of relationships. There's really no way to avoid it in any healthy relationship.
     
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  9. listener

    listener Tony's Friend

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    if it's a true love , it's possible, but if it's only lust, it's impossible, i already seen many tragedies about someone mistaken their lust as love. It's only lead to the bad ending.
     
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  10. listener

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    no, if it's a true love... anything is possible,
     
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  11. HNCKrstl

    HNCKrstl 《The Đevîl's Cøñsørt》

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    Well, you can't really like everything your partner likes and in turn your partner won't enjoy everything you find enjoyable right?

    But if they can't even talk about what they like with their partner without earning a snide remark or finding that the partner is not paying attention,...it would be really bad, I think.

    But thinking about this if the partner is compelled to endure those things, that's compromising right?

    Is it ok to remain with such a partner or should both of them try to find someone else who can listen to them and enjoy even when what they are saying doesn't make sense to them, and not just someone who compromise and pretend..Even if finding that type of person is not sure and this relationship has been going on for so long.
     
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    Both sides have to compromise. You are called "partners" after all. You have to work together. If you have problems like this, then you need to try to talk about it. Confront them. If they show no sign of listening to you or valuing your opinion, then they are undeserving of you. Compromising is not about single-mindedly putting up with your partner's transgressions. It's about working together to come to a solution that both of you can accept without losing too much on either side.
     
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  13. listener

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    like what i said, if it's a love, we can accept every thing about our partners, negative or positive things.
    Don't mistaken about love and lust.
    If there's something you don't like about your partner why you dated or married your partner in the first place, except you are an M.
    i still have some word to say, but i have some business in RL, we will be continues this later.
    Bye
     
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    Tilgarial [chaos Tiger]

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    I think it would be possible.
    It depends on what and how the other side pretends. Like, for some, somethung can be enjoyable to listen about simply due to the othet person being enthusiastic about it. Or they pretend to enjoy it, as they enjoy zhe other person talking.
    Sometimes, especially in relationships i'd say, reasons are equally or even more important than actions ~
     
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  15. HNCKrstl

    HNCKrstl 《The Đevîl's Cøñsørt》

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    :blobrofl:
    There is something called Stockholm syndrome too. Which should not be taken lightly..

    Anyway..
    @mr.heavy-reader , @jbturkle , @Tilgarial
    I just wanted to see what others thought about this but, thanks for answering seriously. :blobicecreamlove::blobicecreamlove:




    I have never dated in my life though but that's not important i guess. :cookie:
     
  16. listener

    listener Tony's Friend

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    wuut, don't end it, i still have something to say though.


    "I have never dated in my life though but that's not important i guess."

    Ummm, really ? ? I think it's important things because, an amateur in love often mistaken their feelings.
     
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  17. HNCKrstl

    HNCKrstl 《The Đevîl's Cøñsørt》

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    Lolol..I won't end it then. ^^

    Eh..Sorry what I mean was I asked the question out of curiosity, and not because I have had that issue. I just said I'm a "motae sollo" so I don't think my opinion can be taken seriously in matters like this.


    Well yes..amateurs do mistake their feelings but, there's no way we can control it right? :sweating_profusely:
     
  18. HNCKrstl

    HNCKrstl 《The Đevîl's Cøñsørt》

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    Please go on..I'm curious now.. (^.^)
     
  19. Nyann

    Nyann NyanyanyanyanyaN

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    Are you currently in love with someone?
     
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  20. listener

    listener Tony's Friend

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    well, a young females rather have unstable emotions after all, but when you're a veteran , you can differentiate the feeling of love or just some curiosity .

    Did you really never dated someone ?
     
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