Discussion How to get a girlfriend

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by RebirthofNovel, Jul 9, 2017.

  1. Shem

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    *raises hand*
     
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  2. Shem

    Shem ┃ᐕ) ⁾⁾「Lv 69 BL Hunter」☆ Vrelty's Seme ♤♡ ꪋς꧖ ☆

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    SHADDAP, RIAJUU SAN!
     
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  3. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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    O_O
    *Has no idea what's going on in here*
     
  4. Shem

    Shem ┃ᐕ) ⁾⁾「Lv 69 BL Hunter」☆ Vrelty's Seme ♤♡ ꪋς꧖ ☆

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    *pats* it means you need a girlfriend, osan... >.> so you can cute your insomnia kekeke
     
  5. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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  6. Shem

    Shem ┃ᐕ) ⁾⁾「Lv 69 BL Hunter」☆ Vrelty's Seme ♤♡ ꪋς꧖ ☆

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    *gets whacked on the head* Q.Q dafuq was that?!
     
  7. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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    Hehehehe Be good @Shem
    *still does not know whats going on here*
    *Poofs out of existence*
     
  8. 3rd Rate Hikikomori

    3rd Rate Hikikomori 『Self-proclaimed Squishy』

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    I wanna know too but people here are not answering seriously *puff cheeks*
     
  9. Shem

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    Watch the video! >.>
     
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    3rd Rate Hikikomori 『Self-proclaimed Squishy』

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    Oh crap. Now it seems like I was not reading the OP which is true

    But I don't have stereo so I can't watch that
     
  11. Shem

    Shem ┃ᐕ) ⁾⁾「Lv 69 BL Hunter」☆ Vrelty's Seme ♤♡ ꪋς꧖ ☆

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    But a baby won't understand it though ._.
     
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  12. Osamaru

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    [INCOMING RANT!]

    O_O Really? Is this guy Serious? This Crap isn't about "how to get a girlfriend" this is "picking up chicks", Its crap like this is the reason people are so screwed up right now. People care more about the sex and getting laid than making a connection. They want to indulge and let the feelings grow after. What the hell is wrong with wanting a deeper relationship than that? wanting an actual connection with something and not just because you think they are hot. Are people really so blind to the results?
    This whole this is about "getting with a girl" or "land the prize". They are not trying to build something, or looking for something more, They are looking for quick fixes and sex.
    Screw.
    That.

    If I could say something to this dude (and anyone else with the same mindset) I'm not saying that sex and physical attraction in a relationship are not Important, but if your FIRST reason for wanting to be with someone is just some that you can bang someone hot or because the sex is good, and not because you WANT TO BE WITH THEM, Then No, I'm not sorry that your relationship ended in bitterness and tears, that you jump from partner to partner, and end up with a ton of baggage and regrets.

    Sorry, but some of us are looking for something more, not just playing a "Game".

    [RANT OVER]
     
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  13. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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    Sorry, that hit on an nerve. Its an old pet peeve.
     
  14. Shem

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    *quadruple thumbs up* (y)(y)(y)(y) Relationship isn't all about physical contact or sexual!
     
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  15. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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    What gets me about this thing, is its not "having someone fall in love with you", Its manipulating and Playing with peoples emotions! If you have to follow a "system". to make someone fall for you, then it's probably best you never start to pursue them in the first place! It'll just be a relationship base on a facsimile; they never fell for you, they fell for the guy you are pretending to be! Sorry, but I'd want someone to like me for me, my faults and my charm, not just smooth talk my way into the bed.
    Like I said, that Sexual attraction and desire are important to a lasting relationship, but if you enter a relationship with that as your GOAL? instead of being attached to the PERSON? Then that's something that's not going to last.
    He said he "didn't want to be a Ace Pickup artiest" but that's all this is.
     
  16. Osamaru

    Osamaru 『Shem's Best Pal ✧ Lexi's Ani ✧ Hamster's Keeper』

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    Ok, I'll stop now. Maybe. the rant is real right now >_< hehehehehhe
     
  17. 3rd Rate Hikikomori

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    We now have a rant thread if you want to continue ranting . . . just saying.
     
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  18. Shem

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    It's okay o/ we have the same perspective ._. I hate shites like that.
     
  19. My Pen is Mightier Than Swords

    My Pen is Mightier Than Swords ["Questioning the firmament"]

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    if 9 "girlfriends" and maintaining a healthy relationship with all of them doesn't scream suspicious idk what
     
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    It says that in the video?