Is it too much to ask for?

Is it too much to ask for to feel wanted to feel needed? To have other people initiate conversations with you instead of always being you that has to initiate them? It feels like they don’t care, that you don’t matter, when they never try to talk to you and it’s always you trying to talk to them it just gets to you after a while you know? It makes you think you aren’t as important to them as they are to you and it’s not something you can bring up without seeming needy like you are just demanding attention from them

 

I guess if someone asked me to do that I'd feel somewhat annoyed. We'd probably talk less.

I can't say much cause my friends and family members maintain an atmosphere of communicating when needed or bored.

It's an alright desire, just depends on who you ask.

 

if you want to feel needed then run an orphanage

 

This is a big brain play right here,10/10 would recommend.

 

[Chomp your sadness]

 

That kinda depends on the person. I don't often initiate conversations with anyone, so if I don't initiate a conversation with you much, it doesn't really indicate how important you are to me...?

 

You are paying for this, right?

 

Depends like some said. I either don't talk much or talk a lot, depending on the subject and the person. Sometimes there's great friends, but then after all the talk, it feels like still nothing got done and the time was wasted, even thu it was meaningful. I tend to like time by myself to do things. Unless Ik or talk to them more, then maybe once awhile I'll ask if I know they weren't doing so well and need a listener.

That being said, maybe I do need talk to other friends esp. now that I have more time.