Justification for infidelity

Anyways, no, there is no justification for infidelity. People act as if having sex is a human right or something. Yeah it's nice, but there's literally entire spiritual schools on how to maximize your sexual health by masturbating. Hundreds of generations worth of self pleasing techniques and methods, available in 20 dollar softcovers in your nearest sex toy store. Everybody should know that stuff before marrying anyways, since very few partners will have the exact same level of libido and someone will have to deal with the excess in a responsible way.

If a marriage is loveless, then it's time to sit down and talk. Sure it's not that easy and emotions are fickle things, but if someone is really suffering in a marriage, it's time to find an alternative, because no one will ever be happy.

 

justification for infidelity? porn plot

 

Pretty sure that a shared custody is the norm nowadays. You are just making up excuses, like I implied in my first comment, it is just people purposely trying to make something more difficult than it actually is.

 

There isn't a justifiable reason for infidelity.

There are however, understandable circumstances and emotional distressed people that are not getting the comfort they need by their significant others... In those cases, what needs to happen is a long and honest discussion between the parties within the relationship to understand the problem and try work out a way to solve it.

As for what is considered unfaithful? Uhn... That's hard to put it into words, I guess if someone I'm dating starts getting too close to someone else behind my back while being clearly aware I'd get troubled if I knew about it? That might be a way of saying it.

I guess it depends on the situation though.

 

FUCK NO.

The justification of it in this situation is purely physical needs and not you running in need of a savior.

Heres my hot take ok?

Dont get together with someone if their abusive, dont have kids with an abusive person, dont cheat on someone just cause youre in bad situation, leave at the first sign of abuse, you can raise kids with a single parent and dont be a dumbass and let your partner be the only making money (but if you have a disability do you).

 

Biological? It's sort of made to give you an incentive to cheat.

 

"Infidelity" is such an applicable word for harem series unless the girls are fine with the guy sleeping around with them. If people are in an open relationship, that is their choice though I still see it as infidelity or something like it. However, if Person A is dating Person B then Person C and it is a romantic relationships sans sex, that might not be as risky as getting Persons B-C.
In the case of abusive relationships, that is where break-ups/divorces are key.

Not sure if this is a justification, but this is what I call "unintentional infidelity": Person A marries Person B then goes off to war or gets lost in something like an expedition. Not being in seen in years, Person A is presumed dead. So, Person B marries Person C and unexpectedly Person A returns alive and well. Perhaps legally Person A is a widow/widower, but practically they are not. So, we also get a case of unintentional bigamy.

 

Giving priority to a person outside of the relationship over your SO, in areas that would normally be reserved for your SO.

None. Talk it out, get therapy, work it out, or be honest and end the relationship as cleanly and painlessly as possible.

No. Your children learn their relationship patterns primarily from their parents. It directly influences the kinds of relationships they have with others. Whether you are male or female, abuse is not okay, consistent disrespect is not okay. If your wife/husband is abusive, cheating on you and this is not a situation that can be solved with conversation or therapy, it is time for you to make plans to leave.

Don't kid yourself by pretending you're doing it for the kids. Doing it for the kids does not involve subjecting them to a hostile environment where they learn unhealthy relationship patterns, which predisposes them to repeat those patterns as future adults. Doing it for the kids is making decisions in favour of protecting their health and safety. A toxic, volatile relationship is neither safe nor healthy for you or your children. If you're in a situation where you can get out and there is support (family, friends, organizations), then utilize those resources, make a plan to get out and execute it as soon as possible.

In this scenario, cheating might give you a temporary emotional boost, but it wouldn't solve the original problem of an abusive, unsafe relationship. It's a faulty coping mechanism that solves nothing. If you have an abusive spouse it also opens you up to the risk of further abuse from them if you get caught. Would I feel sorry for the abusive spouse? Hell no. I still wouldn't call cheating justifiable, just understandable. Big difference between the two.