i remember a fanfic on fanfiction.net i read a while back and can't remember if i finished reading it. it was gamer powered with a male reincarnating as a female. at first wanted to keep his male identity but later fell in love with minato and accept being a woman. after you know what her mom forced her to be hoe because she was getting to become a old useless women i think or she willing became one , but main point here mom wanted grandkids. so she got in a relationship with Rōshi of the four tails.