Discussion what have you done to get away from some people??

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by mariean, Aug 23, 2018.

  1. mariean

    mariean Well-Known Member

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    I’ve literally had to fake a crying scene to get away from a guy once and felt stupid about the entire thing ever since so help me not to be alone in this
     
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  2. Estarossa

    Estarossa 《Master of Dessert》《Old Timer》

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    just leave?
     
  4. mariean

    mariean Well-Known Member

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    Well, I guess I’m a coward
     
  5. Zomula

    Zomula Well-Known Member

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    I had a complete emotional breakdown. I wasn't able to leave until I broke down because I was stuck there without a ride and forced to rely on someone that ignored my pleas to leave. Other than that I usually just walk away.
     
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  6. Sakuratea

    Sakuratea A Cup ot Tea

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    Most would pretend to receive an emergency call.
    I know i have done that once.
     
  7. Lazyanon

    Lazyanon Well-Known Member

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    Start reading novels or playing games and ignore everyone around you till they leave
     
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  8. Aethalis

    Aethalis 【High Templar】【Professional Lurker】【Atheist】

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    Ignore them and pretend they don't exist. Completely reject their existence, and they may stop bothering you.
     
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    Liyus Laksha's Desu~ Cat

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    i just play deaf and keep reading the novels....
     
  10. DontLookDown

    DontLookDown One with the bed

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    Fake an illness and then come back 2 weeks later without warning to throw a molotov through their window at 3 a.m. in the morning.
     
  11. Silver Snake

    Silver Snake Peddler of Tears and Dreams|Rain & Reason

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    I shout at the top of my lungs what is that. Then I point to the direction directly behind them and run away in the time that they aren't looking. I find it works well.
     
  12. BarryKaizer

    BarryKaizer your crazy fairy godmother of death

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    jumped out windows and climbed trees while hissing at them
     
  13. kuroAnsatsu

    kuroAnsatsu 3rd Impostor

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    That guy: "bla bla bla bla..."
    Me: "Oh, is that so? Great" (have no idea what that guy is talking about)
    *then walk away
     
  14. Faetro

    Faetro Well-Known Member

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    Oh, lots of things.

    Ignore them completely, walk away, start speaking gibberish with a straight face, sing randomly (often times gibberish), tell them to fuck off, start talking about super weird stuff to make them uncomfortable, put in earbuds, and more.

    Best plan I've found so far is to not let yourself get into situations where you could get stuck.
     
  15. Trabca

    Trabca Well-Known Member

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    Well, if I can't just leave, then I'll ignore them until they actually mention my name or tap me on the shoulder or something, in which case I'll act like I didn't realize they were talking to me before and act as though I'm totally clueless, to make them repeat whatever they said before. I make it very clear with my body language that I do not want to be with them right now, and attempt to look and sound as exasperated as possible. Then I just shoot down whatever attempts at conversation they make. Never elaborate more than you need to, never ask anything unless you absolutely have to, and if you can, look away from them and answer with nods and grunts.
    I haven't actually ever wanted to get away from someone so badly that I had to go beyond that, because people generally tend to leave me alone if I don't take the initiative to extend the conversation.
     
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    Neolinkster Well-Known Member

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    move 1500-1700 mi or 2400-2700 km away from them
     
  17. EricBannen

    EricBannen √[To Read or Not to Read]

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    Look them straight in the eye and walk away
     
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    Xiongace101 Monkey

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    i sneezed
     
  19. By0z

    By0z Well-Known Member

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    To get away from and avoid having to see an ex, I went to college and got a different job. At least that was the idea at first, before I graduated she had moved on and got married. :)
     
  20. TiggerBane

    TiggerBane Always asleep yep yep yep| Canidae lover

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    I fell asleep standing on my feet. Then they just left me sleeping their and think that I want to talk to them ever again...