What would you do if one day you woke up and...

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What would you do if your gender changed and you need advice on certain biological issues?

  1. Keep it to yourself - don’t tell anyone and rely on the internet

    90 vote(s)
    60.8%
  2. Ask family for advice/support

    35 vote(s)
    23.6%
  3. Ask same gender friends for advice/support

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  4. Ask opposite gender friends for advice/support

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    12.2%
  5. Go to the doctor/hospital

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    35.1%
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  1. ririririn

    ririririn //hikiLurker

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    I'd probably be really curious about the newly sprouted 'organ' I got... So most likely, I'd spent half a day satisfying my curiosity going 'oh so that's what it is' or 'no wonder blah blah blah' before realizing that I should probably consult to a doctor to save myself from being entitled as a perv.
     
  2. TypeFantasyHeart

    TypeFantasyHeart Well-Known Member

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    whats the difference between that and death?!?
     
  3. ohko

    ohko 【LGBTQ+ association】 【ohko is ohko!】

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    Huh? The prompt is that you're the different sex and you don't have a p*n*s anymore.

    Yup! I agree! That would definitely be the hardest part!

    I'm not even sure how doctors/hospitals would react to a situation like this.

    I feel like by the default, the government/healthcare system would assume someone is trying to impersonate you.
     
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  4. Haigi

    Haigi Skimming Binge Reader

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    I'm pretty sure a DNA test or something would prove your identity rather quickly.
     
  5. NowFooMe

    NowFooMe Well-Known Member

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    I think this has already been answered a hundred times. The first thing you should always do when you swap gender is masturbate
     
  6. J.R.

    J.R. Well-Known Member

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    p_00020.jpg

    Perhaps this sums it up
     
  7. xluferx

    xluferx [The writer who writes for fun][Meme lord]

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    You have now tits you can finally grab tits and a pussy so is a win situation
     
  8. ohko

    ohko 【LGBTQ+ association】 【ohko is ohko!】

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    Ah but I mean, you'd have to have a DNA sample from before you changed to compare with?

    Do you have a criminal record? Normal people don't usually get their DNA stored......

    I guess you could compare to your family's DNA, but the best that could show is that you're related to your family.

    Which is why I said I don't care what you do in the short term... XD I'm more interested in the long-term game!

    Actually, I honestly wouldn't be surprised if many guys who changed to girls have trouble masturbating to orgasm at first. It's not that easy to figure out... and it takes a lot more time than most of us may think to get to know your own body. I don't know if there's any evidence for this, but based on people I know and from what I've heard, I think it's harder to masturbate as a girl than as a guy. It takes a lot more patience, and unless you know your body well, you need to spend more time to get yourself there. I know some girls who have never been able to masturbate themselves to orgasm without using toys.

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    On the MTF transgender forums, a lot of the transwomen have trouble orgasming for a long time after they get surgery. Some of them are never able to without using a vibrator.

    EDIT: Apparently the statistic is around 5-15% of women report primary anorgasmia, meaning they have never been able to stimulate themselves to orgasm, whether manually (masturbation) or by some other means. The rate of women who have never been able to orgasm through sex is... skyrocketingly high, but it's no secret that many women fake orgasms when they're with their partners.
     
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  9. Shem

    Shem ┃ᐕ) ⁾⁾「Lv 69 BL Hunter」☆ Vrelty's Seme ♤♡ ꪋς꧖ ☆

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    Look at the first page for my answer ahahahahahah
     
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  10. Tnyhy

    Tnyhy Well-Known Member

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    Sorry, I dont get the OOPS! part of that graph, care to explain plix?
     
  11. SilverFeather

    SilverFeather [Seeker of Yuri]•[Likes tomboys]

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    Yup yup I would still like girls just like the bunch of fujoshi round here would still like (Homo) guys, Ah the fudanshi would likely become fujoshi... wonder if they would fall on the straight category that way?...
    In death you can't go yuru yuri, as simple as that, also in death you can't follow the novels and manga you were reading
     
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  12. WeiFish

    WeiFish Eccentric Grey Sword 『WW Vet.』

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    I live with my family and have 2 sisters and one of my closest friends is a girl so... I'd be alright in adapting department.
     
  13. Miserys_End

    Miserys_End 「Lv1 Pretend Person」I'm the preson i pretend to be

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    Electrolysis for the hair... Arms legs back and chest would need extensive work... Not quite Chewbacca hairy, but it's more forest then scattered trees.
    I doubt you would need estrogen supplemants since I assume I now have the plumbing that produces it.(I think...)
    Also I'm not overly worried about my chest. The female side of the family all have D+ sized breasts so it's just a matter of time before the genes kick in and start expanding the moobs I already own.

    So all in all as long as the facial hair(and other places on my body) is taken care of the only issue becomes finding a girlfriend because I would rather not date a man xD actually nm, now that I think about it I already have a friend that told me if I didn't have a d*ck, I would be the perfect partner lmao!!
     
  14. Lucresia

    Lucresia Well-Known Member

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    You could just disappear for a year or two come back and say that you got a sex change or rob a bank and live a double life.

    Now if it was me nothing will change much as I have no life. Will still be alone playing video games and reading online novel. Come on who would even know if I am a guy or girl.
     
  15. Banarok

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    telling my family would probably be enough, we would go to the hospital to check what the hell was up, i have health as a main priority so if it does not affect my health i'd probably not take hormones that could mess with my health, that easy really.

    I am me and nothing would change really, my interests, sexuality and morals are still the same and i know my friends would not care, even if one of them would not know how to react and walk on needles forever, before i could get him to understand i'm fine.

    boobs coming in would probably suck, i know how sensitive my sister was when hers were growing, she turned vicious as soon as something touched them, but having a sister and knowing her periods are basically a total non-issue i'd assume that the same would go for me, I do honestly pity people that feel huge pain once a month, that must suck.

    just one thing i love jackets and coats, and the male selection of such SUCK, so buying women have far more colourful choices when it comes to that so that's something i think i'd enjoy.
     
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  16. ohko

    ohko 【LGBTQ+ association】 【ohko is ohko!】

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    It's a meme about the average time it takes to orgasm men vs. women during sexual intercourse, and how men can often orgasm too quickly.

    This is purely based on averages though, and the spread is very wide, so you can't really conclude much just from the averages alone. There's only a few numbers you can actually reliably count on to make any sort of fair comparison.

    When it comes to masturbation:
    Primary anorgasmia is well known to occur significantly more frequently in women than in men, so the conclusion I roughly draw just by looking at averages, is that on average, men reach orgasm much more easily than women, and I know more women who have difficulty achieving orgasm than men who have difficulty achieving orgasm... so it's more-or-less where I draw my thoughts from.

    There's kind of a belief/claim circulated in gender manga/hentai circulated among male audiences that the female perspective in sex feels better than the male perspective; it's kind of perpetuated by all the ahgeho, mindbreak, multiple orgasms, etc that's out there, and porn in general. While, it's impossible to affirm whether it's true or not (since nobody will experience both sexual organs), but to some extent I do feel like the claim in hentai/gender bender manga is unrealistic to an extent.

    I think it's overwhelmingly true to some extent that typical men (due to all the media that they see) expect women to be able to orgasm during sexual intercourse -- and when it turns out that's not the case (which is common) -- it can be troubling to both parties.

    ∩(︶▽︶)∩ I just got to 100 posts from this thread! /o/

    Thank you everyone for helping me boost my post count!
     
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  17. Tnyhy

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    So that was the trap...
    Shame on you!
     
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  18. SilverFeather

    SilverFeather [Seeker of Yuri]•[Likes tomboys]

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    Ah whatever, here goes a serious answer:
    I am somewhat tall, 6'1", dealing with facial hair that grows no matter what is troublesome so I might get a treatment or something to deal with it, the pains I don't really care as I am somewhat good at enduring pain, sudden changes in the mood as many says appear in the periods might be troublesome normally but controlling my emotions isn't a big deal, the annoying issue is that I doubt I would be a tomboy as I am pretty bad at sports, nor an oujou due to my height... A princelike girl maybe? hmm seems doable, with the influx of strogen the face might turn finer which is good for this but the height and wide shoulders won't change, hopefully inheriting mom's chest that was relatively flat when young... yep yep, sounds like it wouldn't be as bad as I thought!

    I would rather choose a short and girly type tho...
     
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  19. AliceShiki

    AliceShiki 『Ms. Tree』『Magical Girl of Love and Justice』

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    You just triggered my report finger, repent for your double posting crimes!

    Luckily for you, you have 101 posts, not 100~
     
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  20. ohko

    ohko 【LGBTQ+ association】 【ohko is ohko!】

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    I'm also on the taller side, so I don't think I could ever pass for a girl.

    But hey, we don't get to pick the bodies we are born with. It may not be what you want, but at least there are positive sides to things we already have -- like not having heart disease or other sad things, so I'm already plenty grateful. XD Nobody is exactly how they want to be (including cisgender people), but being able to love ourselves for who we are and treasure what we've already experienced in our lives is important if you are able to.

    Personally, I think the most difficult thing for me if I ever became a girl would be managing the stress of keeping of appearances, clothing, etc. Girls are judged more heavily on their appearances than guys are (at least, the female culture is stereotyped for being that way), and I think that would take a very heavy toll on me because I didn't grow up with everything that most girls have learned during their childhood/entire lives, and I'm relatively susceptible to social anxiety, which I would feel a lot of if I'm unable to fit in successfully -- and it's not easy to fit in like the snap of your finger!

    Also I'm not brave enough to be counter-cultural and blaze my own path!

    Dealing with the biological parts, I wouldn't mind at all. In fact, I think I'd even welcome it (...this might be weird, but I'm fascinated by mpreg... :notlikeblob: ...I'd definitely like to get pregnant if I could...). I had my own period when I was struggling over gender/identity/transgender stuffs, and what I realized from experiencing all of that was that how I feel about myself is more important to me than how other people see me. Maybe it sounds cliche, but accepting myself for all of what I am (and not just part of me) was all I needed to do to get myself together. It doesn't matter what other people think so long as I'm comfortable with the way I see myself.

    Though, I guess I'm fortunate. For other people, how they are treated/seen by the world absolutely matters to them, and thats how they more forward with their brand of transgender.
     
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